Is it a good thing or not if another remidd you of an ex?

[Anonymous]

Clearly an ex you had some type of compatability and chemistry so that would be a positive. What does it mean if another your casually dating reminds you of an ex? Could it means it's the same type of person, same lesson just in another body? Or is it something deeper then that. Im dating this guy, it's very new, the energy, chemistry and connection isn't strong and they are the same horoscope sign. Not sure if that has something to do with it too... Thoughts

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Correction the energy and connection IS strong.!!

[ohsheeT]

For me. I wouldn't go there. Just for the fact that I would be cheating the new girl that I'm with by maybe imagining or in a moment a passion thinking that it could be her or something and I just wouldn't want that no. It has to be completely different than my ex I just wouldn't date the girl at all doesn't matter if I've learned my lesson or whatever it is I still have to make it about her the girl that I'm with at the moment and that would be cheating her out of so many different things if I was to do that

[Asker]

Okay thanks for your input. My ex and I have been broken up for over a years... it's not like a new breakup which makes a difference. He's energy reminds me so much of my ex, I can't explain it. I have no desire to be back with the ex, this new guy certainly triggered something within to remind me of the past. Again logically it's difficult to explain why I'm feeling this way...

[ohsheeT]

No I hear you I mean there's no way possible I could do it there's just no way possible I wouldn't want to do it I don't care how much I'd like to person or anything because some way somehow every day it would remind me of something and it just wouldn't be fair to that person or myself to be in that type of relationship

After I break up I want something brand new something completely opposite different and it just makes it better for both people I think anyway but if I had to sit there and think about it all day I would be miserable I would call you to the point where I wouldn't even want to touch the person and that's just wrong so

Let's see like you said it's energy and that's what it is it's the same type of energy that because everybody has energy

And that's why I would want to be with somebody completely different because when you can become one with energy it's the most beautiful feeling in the world and that's what connects us to each other is energy

[Sevenpointfive]

i have a type that i like and a type that i can get consistently. so this was never a problem for me. but i understand why it's important for a woman to find the meaning. i've heard all of the bad that comes with girls having a certain type that they are into. it's negative because they are single or in a bad relationship.

i guess it's not seen or heard of as much because if the guys are right for her she will stick with them for a long time until unforeseeable circumstances split them apart. so, based off of the logic that i presented; it could be good or bad.

[WhitneySnow]

Could be you have negative memories of your ex

[WhitneySnow]

Oh! That’s great. I guess your feelings about your ex are mostly positive

[Asker]

Good and bad memories. He's wnergy certainly triggered good times and bad, it's hard to explain. We had a very intense connection

[WhitneySnow]

That’s good. And you feel the same way with this new guy?

[Asker]

Umm maybe, i barley know him. There's a definitely a depper connection that goes beyond intellectual.

[WhitneySnow]

I’m glad you feel a deep connection to him. What was your question?

[WhitneySnow]

In your case I think k it is a good thing

[NicholasRedone]

I never want to be reminded 🥱😋😅 of past romance with a present lover if it were my opinion

[msc545]

could be good or bad. would not matter to me.

[QuietRunner]

I love a good reminder about Sara