Why is it an issue when a handsome man dates an unattractive (said ugly) woman?

[winz44]

But not an issue when a beautiful woman dates an unattractive man.

[ohsheeT]

We'll see that's the whole thing is when somebody dates somebody else for whatever the reason it might be it's their reason and only the reason

I mean there are girls on here that are absolutely gorgeous I mean and they have a very beautiful heart there are some homely girls on here but they also have a very beautiful heart and I mean I would date either one.

Because of who they are on the inside somebody might say hey to either one of them all those girls are ugly well who gives a f*** it's none of your business if I like somebody I like them I like them of who they are on the inside the outside just an extra bonus to me because I can find beauty everywhere anywhere and I can also find ugly people because ugly comes from the inside and that's the first place I look at a person

So if I was dating somebody and one of my friends walked up to me and said what are you with her for she's ugly I would say guess what she's not ugly you're ugly for even saying that because you're not looking in the right places so really wouldn't matter to me because I have a good taste and I don't give a f*** with anybody else thinks especially in one of my relationships I really don't care

[winz44]

Thank you for your reply. To me the possible reason/s would be because of that person's character, I also think being ugly has advantages.

[Subtle_Luminescence]

People are too bothered about things they shouldn't be. It's probably jealousy or something wrong with them urging out.

We have a saying in urdu which translates to: 'everyone has their own eyes, everyone has their own moon to look at.'

If they find each other attractive and good enough, who are we to judge?

[Summeroflove]

Lmao. People judge no matter what you do. People judge both because they’re jealous.

[molonski2]

I dont think its a remote issue , as the beauty is in the eye of the beholder , so who is to declare that she is actually ugly? It all comes back to this stupid idea of ratings , ratings DONT exist.

[MannMitAntworten]

Oh it is a subject even in your latter example. In fact it was just a subject here a moment ago. I would say it is a bigger head scratcher when a very attractive woman dates the less than attractive guy.

[Anonymous]

One is no more "an issue" than the other. But like any gender based issue, women tend to only see the male-biased messages, and men tend to only see the female-biased ones.

[NicholasRedone]

Hmmm 😏 it eludes me as a male ♂️🐏