If a guy wants sex on the first date is it safe to say that all he will want and nothing more?

[JanetMaree]

I feel like if this happens on the first date the less likely he would want a relationship. Maybe it is not always true but I feel like for the most part it is what do you think

[ohsheeT]

No I wouldn't think so I've been on first dates before and we've hit it off so good that I mean things got hot and heavy

You feel this connection you feel this energy charge between the both of you and things are just like magic becoming one with each other is a beautiful thing

I've always had more respect for girls that did it on the first date and girls that didn't

Because they have a mind of their own

And in certain circumstances I mean it's very hot and beautiful thing but I wouldn't think that way at all that a guy would be that way or at least me I'm not that way anyway

[pierre7i]

You're absolutely right - guys who expect/demand a girl be sexual with them on a first date are self-entitled, untrustworthy and, frankly (in my opinion anyway) totally lack any romantic characteristics

What would you do @JanetMaree if someone you're on a 1st date with asks you to have sex?

[Screenwriter]

I'd say pretty sure thing he's using dating as booty calls.

A few years ago I was chatting up some guy through some dating site and we'd been talking about a week. When I finally said I wasn't interested in having sex until a month or more after I'd been dating someone, he HUNG UP THE PHONE! Then blocked his number because for a second I thought something was wrong with the line!!!

Nope the wrong was with him.

I'd say 95% of the time first-date sex is a wham bang. Be guarded.

[incorrected]

If the feeling is mutual, maybe not. If it's just from his end, probably so. Consider those answers that don't seem to come from someone in a long term relationship carefully...

[WindAtMyBack]

Very likely, but if you like the guy, I wouldn't write him off for that reason. Just say no, then see if he walks or gives you the time you need. You will find out pretty quickly.

[DryGermanGuy]

Yeah, he needs another notch in the bedpost... otherwise, why the rush?

[bowenw]

Agreed, especially if he is pressuring for it.

[JanetMaree]

Yup!!

[slatyb]

Is he pressuring you? Just leave and block him.

[DaBiggestBird]

Yep. Sounds pretty accurate

[LiamS95]

For the most part I'd agree.

[jahaims]

Yep.