Is it true that men expect sex on a first date?

[DontTouchMySosij]

I've seen some questions from girls saying men expect sex on the first date... Really? What men?
Do men actually expect sex on a first date?
I mean I'm a guy and I want sex on a first date.. but never expect sex on a first date... I know how girls are and don't put out easy at all... I'd be surprised if I get to have sex on the 6th date so I'm definitely not expecting sex on the first date.. I'm wanting it, that's the difference, but maybe most guys really do expect it?

I'm a guy and I expect sex on first date

I don't expect it in first date

[D_Bone_Steak]

Honestly, I probably won't bother seeing a girl again if I don't get the sex... at the very least she needs to spend the night with me and that doesn't require sex, but morning sex is great... but I view females that are not extremely motivated to be around me as sort of a lost cause. I'm a low-effort sort of dude, my pick-up moves consist of just having fun being stupid until they hit on me. If I'm not wanted, it's not my problem.

[Anonymous]

Expecting it is maybe a bit exaggerated, but I had several men trying to persuade me to have sex with them on the first date after making out, which I happily do if the chemistry is there.
It is very uncharming and annoying when they do not understand the first time I say I am not going back home with them so soon. I stopped going on more dates with those types now. They just lack some respect from me from the very start and that is a bad base for a relationship.

[Jersey2]

>………….🤮

[artstatues]

Definitely not true
Only players, guys interested in hookups

[mobiusforniner]

Wow gaggers, what quality relationships y'all must be looking for. do people really expect this? Gawd, I dated many women. The idea was too see if that person would be a good match. Never had sex on the first date... maybe I be old school or y'all just looking for fuck buddies.

[BikingTrail]

Once a woman wanted sex on the first date but at the last second I declined. Just didn't feel right because I only knew her for a few hours and she was moving away in a short while so we couldn't have really started a relationship. Just would have been too hard to say goodbye after being that close. Plus she said she "couldn't have kids" so I assumed she wanted no protection, none was discussed. I regret it now, kind of, but who knows, she could have had an STD

[SkipPerk]

Getting sex on the first date is really rare save for three instances:

1.) high school and you make it clear that is the cost of the date

2.) high school and you know the girl will do whatever you say

3.) sleazy girl

sfter high school, I rarely have gotten lucky on a first date

[Tyrael]

Not true at all. Tinder hookups expect it but I'd hardly call that a first date, that's just girls who got the wrong idea about what tinder is for.

[IsoUser]

Any guy who expects sex on the first date is a complete freaking Idiot, the only thing that you're expected to do is be a gentleman and pay for her meal and expect nothing in return Period

[bamesjond0069]

I dont except its the norm so in that way i do. Personally i hate sluts so i always hope they say no but usually they dont.

[Anonymous]

Depends. Some people do Tinder hookups and don't even go on a date, just fuck.

[Anonymous]

Most guys are not stupid enough to expect sex on the first date.
Do we “want” sex right away, of course.
Do we “expect” it... fuck no.

[Anonymous]

No. Only those pick uppers do that (who see women as sex toys). And if women fall for them, I can't feel sorry for them.

[Jltakk]

Absolutely not. I'd wager most men expect that sort of thing down the line, not at the first date.

[Anonymous]

I don’t expect it but I probably wouldn’t refuse it

[Jamie05rhs]

Um, no; that's not true At All!

[MCheetah]

I don't, no.

[In_Trance]

not always true