Is it too soon to send a guy nudes after the first date? Is he going to assume I only want to have sex?

[Anonymous]

This guy and I really hit it off, we’ve been talking for a month and met online and had our first date a week ago and it went really well and have our second date planned. Since then I have sent him nudes here and there because I think it’s fun… is he going to think I only want sex from him? He hasn’t invited me over to his house, he’s wanting to take me on proper dates

[Kinkyhubby]

Just be careful. He just started dating him. It is pretty hot your sending him nudes, but you don't know if he showing his friends like your a prize. Wish someone sent me nudes. Lol

[BarryLiverstone]

Probably not if you met him and feel like he’s safe and mature. When is your next date?

[Asker]

I do feel he is safe and mature. It’s tomorrow evening

[BarryLiverstone]

Hope it goes well. Have you set expectations on how far he can sexually escalate with you on the date now that he has seen your naked body?

[Asker]

We haven’t discussed it. I’m ready though but I feel like he’s hesitant and I don’t know why. Like it seems for our second date he isn’t wanting to take me to his place yet:(

[BarryLiverstone]

He said he wants to take you on real dates. That is why. Are you wanting to go to his place next month?

[Asker]

I want to go to his place tomorrow:b yeah he seems to really wanting it to be more than sex but I don’t want there to be no sex !

[BarryLiverstone]

You are in a tricky situation. As you can’t know if you can trust him yet. I’m sure you are considering many things right?

[BarryLiverstone]

My advice is to wait on the sex but tomorrow kiss and flirt. Seems like you are into fun things and he should wanna share soon

[BarryLiverstone]

How was date #2?

[Asker]

Thanks for following up, that’s sweet (: it went good. Basically what you suggested is what happened, we flirted and he kissed me at the end of the night. There will more than likely be a third date but we haven’t discussed what that will be yet.

[BarryLiverstone]

Good news. I thought that’s what would happen. The thing is as a guy we constantly hear women complaining that guys only want sex. We are called pigs and it’s a frequent drumbeat that no good men are out there. So he is taking his time and knows that if a deeper connection can be made the sex will be even better in the future. You are welcome

[BarryLiverstone]

Also for the third date if he has planned the first two, you could show him interest and suggest something next weekend. Don’t have to wait on him

[Anonymous]

Don't do this. Give it more time.

[LEGENDARY4200]

It's up to you