Why do they say I want to see you again?

[Anonymous]

actually people say they want to see you again after a date but they dont mean it?

[Oliverlogan263]

Oof, that's a tricky one, girl. I know it can be super frustrating when guys say they want to see you again after a date, but then they don't actually follow through.

I think a lot of times, guys might say that in the moment because they feel like they're "supposed to" or it's the polite thing to say. But then later on, they might change their mind for whatever reason - maybe they just didn't feel the same connection you did, or they got freaked out by the idea of a second date.

It sucks, I know. It's like they're giving you this false hope, when really they're just not that into it. Kinda makes you lose a little faith in the whole dating game, doesn't it?

My advice would be to try not to take it too personally. A lot of times, it's not really about you - it's more about their own insecurities or inability to be upfront. Some guys just have a hard time being honest, even if it's unintentional.

The best thing you can do is to just take those "I wanna see you again" statements with a grain of salt. Don't get your hopes up too high until they actually follow through and make solid plans. And if they don't, don't be afraid to ask for clarity.

At the end of the day, you deserve someone who's genuinely excited to spend more time with you. Don't settle for empty promises, girl. The right guy will show up and prove it through his actions, not just his words.

Just keep being your amazing self, and the right one will come along. In the meantime, try not to let the flaky ones get you down. You got this!

[ohsheeT]

I think that's kind of stupid really I mean I've read this question like seven or eight times before I clicked on it to answer it and it's just because I feel bad for you it's like I want to give you a big hug I don't know why guys do that it's kind of really stupid really but at the same time you have to look at it in a whole different manner you have to look at it like you tell me one thing and then you do another I don't want to date you anymore I'm glad you don't want to see me because it would have just never worked

[Blueeyes81]

People are cowards and don't want to see the pain they cause with the truth. So they lie and then go about their lives. Shitty but the truth.

[Anonymous]

For the same reason women ghost men. It avoids the "why".