Do you think some exes try to come back to you because No one else wants them?

[Finchie40]

Like the tested the waters and realized nobody wants them , so they try coming back to you.

[Jove79]

I think when a couple breaks up, it’s usually the woman that comes crawling back.. not because she can’t get someone else, but because her emotions are too strong for the guy.


Guys usually don’t bed to come back. They’ll rather take the L.


A girl won’t back back because she can’t get someone else, they have the biggest advantage in the dating scene. For every 10 guys there’s 1 girl. Women are very desirable and wanted.


If a girl split from her guy, she can walk down the street, ask the first guy she likes to have sex with her, and they’ll do it within minutes. Now let’s see if that works for a guy..

[EmmiL]

Lol this is so wrong

[Cormac995]

Sometimes yes, sometimes they genuinely regret letting you go and really do miss you. Emotions can be confusing sometimes. You can get really really angry at someone you love in fact sometimes the people you love hurt you and piss you off the most but sometimes the love is real and strong and in hindsight they realize that they wished they had tried to work it out instead of breaking up.

[NoDecision]

They do when they find out no one else will put up with their shit. But by that time their original mate will have hopefully said, "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice and you will be singing the blues."

https://www.youtube.com/embed/5b_zsPIq5gc

[caitycat21]

have no clue. The guy I’m talking to rn has an ex that cheated on him with his best friend but she still tries to message him talking about how they’re “meant to be together”, I imagine once they hit their 30s they start posting cringe like this

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic boomerang ex situation! 🌪️ Sometimes, people try to come back because they think the grass isn’t greener, or they miss the comfort and attention they once had with you. It might feel like they’re re-entering your life for convenience or fear of being alone—totally a red flag if you feel they’re just looking to fill a void. Just remember, you deserve someone who chooses you for all the right reasons! 💖

[sage2021]

It takes years of being on your own before a person thinks that no one else wants them.
And if no one else seems to want them then I think it's time to reevaluate your life and make some positive changes.
If you're going to put yourself on the market you have to have something they want to buy!

[WonderingManII]

I kinda agree with you. I've been along my whole life. I have come the conclusion that nobody wants me either. As odd as it sounds, that is part of the motivation for being on GAG, it kinda takes away some of my loneliness.

[Bricealan]

@Finchie40 I have often wondered about that. Have only had 3 prior 'lovers' (including a prior wife) contact me later... sometimes MUCH later. If that is true, it is sad for them, and makes me wonder why we were a 'couple' in the beginning.

[Bricealan]

@Finchie40 As a addendum, my prior wife had been married 6 times before. Very pretty woman, but what was lacking?

[Finchie40]

6 times is a lot of times to be married , that’s crazy , she might be the problem to be honest with you

[Communicationisking]

Some potentially yes... you don't know what you have got till its gone type of thing but majority probably not it is probably they just feel safe with you and are remembering all the good things not focusing on the bad that caused the break up or whatever.

[fivebyfour]

I think some guys who leave their girls perhaps for a younger model come crawling back when they realise how well off they were with the girl they left, or when they get dumped by the younger model when their money runs out,,,

[Nikki1989]

They usually only come back when they are too lazy or don't have the goods to meet someone else.

[Ariesman81]

It's their narcissism. Don't fall for it.

If a woman comes back it's because you didn't kick her ass hard enough out the door the first time.

[Sal_Monella]

They realize what they lost. You were better than they realized. They remember what attracted them at first before they domesticated it out of you.

[Sal_Monella]

And when they discover that they can't domesticate it out of you, they divorce you for irreconcilable differences, like your movie choice on Netflix.

[Godihateyou]

No. All my exes are awesome. Everyone wants them. They come back to me because I am an aggressive assshole with a moderate sized dick that fucked them thoroughly. An i made a lot of money on smart investments f9r the last 20 years

[genericname85]

no it's usually cause finding someone else is a hassle and just fucking the last person is easy.

[ProbablyClueless]

I'm sure it happens sometimes. It's more likely that the person just left without realizing how much the they valued the other aspects of what you brought into their life.

[serious]

That is just cheap. They have nowhere else to go and nor they want to be single so that is why they do this.

[beenherebefore]

I think is because they have good memories with you.

[Finchie40]

Yea I agree with this as well, some have said that before , said all they remember was good times over the bad times , Me personally doesn’t usually take an ex back into a relationship, but friendship absolutely , if she wants more than friendship it’s definitely going to take some time for me to even consider her as a relationship partner again , she definitely has to prove to me that she is t blowing smoke up my ass lol

[Lilbit84]

Sure dore-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Adrian2025]

Not necessarily, maybe they still have feelings for you.

[exitseven]

Yes, somebody I know just had that happen to him. His wife decided she wants him back.

[DailyFairy]

Its more like the ones they want, don't want them or could also be they didn't find anyone better.

[DishLady]

Possibly.

[Renegade_Sailor]

Never take them back, it's a trap

[WonderingManII]

Yes I do!

[Anonymous]

Yes, I think it's quite possible.