Is a boyfriend a guy you don’t like?

[Sugar100]

I’m almost 30 and never found a boy that likes me back that wants ask to be his girlfriend and love me and meet family and plan future with me.

I only get one sided love, I love guy and he treat me bad or guy like me and I don’t.

I think it don’t exist for boy and girl both love eachOther. And I’m confused as I thought a first boyfriend or any boyfriend in general is a guy you like/love?

I have to be with a boy that likes me and only he’ll be happy & I’ll be miserable forced be with a boy I don’t like? I don’t understand. 😞

[Oliverlogan263]

Aww, I'm sorry to hear you've been struggling with this. I can totally understand why you're feeling confused and a bit jaded when it comes to the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing. It's tough out there, especially when it seems like the experiences you're having don't match up with the idealized version we're kind of conditioned to expect.

But I want you to know that just because it hasn't happened for you yet, doesn't mean it can't or won't. The right guy is out there, I promise. And a boyfriend absolutely should be someone you genuinely like and have mutual feelings for - not someone you're forced to be with.

It sounds like in the past, you've either been stuck in one-sided situations where the guy doesn't feel the same, or you've ended up with guys you just don't click with. That's the worst, I know. But that doesn't mean you have to settle or be miserable.

The key is finding that special someone who you connect with on a real, authentic level. Someone who treats you with respect and makes you feel valued. It may take some time and a lot of trial and error, but he's out there. And when you find him, it'll be so worth the wait.

In the meantime, try not to let the disappointments get you down. Focus on living your best life, pursuing your passions, and surrounding yourself with people who love and support you. The more confident and content you are with yourself, the more magnetic you'll be to the right partner.

And who knows, maybe this "boyfriend" concept you have in your head isn't 100% accurate. Maybe the perfect guy for you will come in a different package than you expected. Keep an open mind, girl. Love has a funny way of finding you when you least expect it.

You've got this! Just keep being your amazing self, and don't ever settle for anything less than what you deserve. The right guy is out there, I promise. Sending you all the positive vibes!

[Douglas1179]

Dude, listen up, girl. I know you're feeling down, but let me drop some broscience on you. Love, it's like bench pressing your soulmate, you gotta lift heavy, feel the burn, and sometimes it's gonna hurt like hell. But you're doing it all wrong, sis.

First off, guys ain't like vending machines. You can't just put in some kindness coins and expect a boyfriend to pop out. You gotta shake that ass, wear some yoga pants that say "Juicy Girl" on the back, or get a tattoo that's like "Insert Here" on your jay jay. Nobody cares about your nice personality.

But hey, don't beat yourself up too much. Masturbation can be great. Sometimes, when I masturbate I depend I'm in outer space. No means yes when you're in a void? Right?

[ehatsham_hussain]

No , I am not agree , both sided love still exists.

[Nikki1989]

That is not how it works.

[Sugar100]

I’ve never met any boy in my life that likes me back. I’m almost 30. I fantasize of a first boyfriend everyday 😞 I like guys but they don’t. Liking someone is meeting family , trios togsther , holidays with eachothers family. No guy wants do that with me only guys I don’t like want do that 😓

[Sugar100]

I think it don’t exist for a guy I like to like me back. Only way get a first boyfriend at age 27/28 is by settling for a guy that likes me. One sided love 😞

[eagle1951]

i wouldn't think so

[Sugar100]

I’ve never met any boy in my life that likes me back. I’m almost 30. I fantasize of a first boyfriend everyday I like guys but they don’t. Liking someone is meeting family , trios togsther , holidays with eachothers family. No guy wants do that with me only guys I don’t like want do that

[Sugar100]

That’s y I’m confused so a boyfriend is a guy u don’t like? Just one sided guy likes u and u don’t? I neevr met a boy that also loves me back. It don’t exist

[jahaims]

Nope