I love my boyfriend, but I don't like his habits

Long story kind of short.

Me & my kinda boyfriend(aren't exactly together at the moment) , we started dating last September, & dated until January, got into arguements about his habits with weed and just other arguements between our relationship.

we didn't talk for 7 months and didn't get along, and we just started talking again, last month. I didn't ever think we'd be together again. so I feel colser than ever with him, and he wants to get back together, but I'm afraid of going through the same things that bothered me last time we dated.

He's always there to care for me, treats me better than anyone has before, loving, sweet, everything I want in a guy. I love him. but there's a few problems.

I don't feel like his first priority sometimes, I feel like his friends come before me at times. like I will make plans with him, he will either say he's busy, or hangout with me for a little bit, and says he has to go do stuff, meaning find weed, smoke weed, whatever. I don't have a problem with weed, just have a problem that it sometimes comes between us. I don't like it, and I've said something before about it kind of, but like he gets mad. I know you can't change a person and you have to accept them for who they are. but like it makes me mad sometimes. I'm actually glad to say we're not dating yet, because I always get mixed thoughts alot, like am I holding on to something that will never change, or could it overtime? I love him, but sometimes things just get out of hand. I sometimes ask myself why I'm still holding on, when things get like this. what should I do? I love him
I love my boyfriend, but I don't like his habits
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