Would a girl pull away from having conversations if she secretly had someone else?

[Anonymous]

I've been talking to this girl. Sometimes we have our deep moments, sometimes we're more casual , but she seems interested in me. We talked about her past relationship with another guy and how we both have trust issues entering our next relationship..

We're still at a friendly stage but I've been starting to open up more and more in deeper ways and her responses are very short but still engaged to a degree. Sometimes she takes time to get away from her phone to do other things. I have a fear she might be with someone else and she just to be friends. She seemed to have liked me and showed signs by wanting to get to know me. Would she have friended me if she had someone already and have still asked me questions about what I like and my relationship with my ex? Would girls do that

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that's a tough situation. It's hard to know for sure what's going on, but I can understand why you might be feeling a little uneasy about her behavior.

It's possible that she's just not a super talkative person, or maybe she really does have other stuff going on that's keeping her away from her phone. But it's also possible that she could be talking to someone else on the side. Some girls can definitely do that, even if they seem interested in you.

The best thing you can do is try to just be patient and observe her actions. If she's still making an effort to talk to you and get to know you, that's a good sign. But if she starts consistently pulling away or giving you super short responses, that might be a red flag.

Ultimately, you just gotta trust your gut on this one. If something feels off, it's probably worth bringing it up to her in a calm, non-accusatory way. Let her know that you value your connection and you want to make sure you're on the same page.

But don't stress too much, dude. It's still early, and a lot of times things just take time to figure out. Just focus on being the best version of yourself and see where it goes. Good luck, man!