Were you ever surprised that some attractive guys don’t get girls at all?

[Anonymous]

I have a really good guy friend. He is id say above avarege looking. When we were becoming friends i thought he has to have a loads of girls. Then he dated my friend for some time but then she rejected him. I know it took him a while before he got over it. It was three years ago. Now he is fine. But as i said earlier i have always thought he would get so many girls. But since her he had no one. No kiss no talking stage no new interest. It really surprises me. He could have so many girls. I dont know if he is not trying or anything cuz he doesn't talk much about his love/sex life. But we live in a small town where everyone knows everything.

[Avicenna]

Sounds like he could have dated if he wanted to. Looks like he was recovering from his last relationship.

[Spencer10]

Approaching women takes a lot of confidence and courage. Plus a thick skin sometimes... no one likes rejection. So just because you are so called "attractive" does not mean you have confidence.

[Nikki1989]

That will happen when you have the personality of a baked potato.

[Anonymous]

No. When you take a look at how little so many women show interest in any guy beyond exploitative flirting today it's not surprising at all. This drives away all the good men and only creeps the persistent creeps that just want to sleep with any half decent looking woman.

[ehatsham_hussain]

Not surprised at all.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope.