How do I get a man. I am a transgender who doesn't dress up at this moment because of my safety?

I have a crush on some men and they ignore me. and if I put up my face photo with a wig on online people message me but they only want experience. how can I get attention without dress up as a woman? I am very feminine and have female voice. all the people on the phone call me mam. a girl told me that I have a girl's face also. if I grow my hair I look like a woman but my body is kind of big. I am not fat but I have thicker bone than girls.

How do I get a man. I am a transgender who doesn't dress up at this moment because of my safety?
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