Howe to turn a situation ship into a relationship?

[CAPLOVE]

I’m worried I’m in a situationship. I have been going out with this guy a lot like 4 times and we text all the time. I feel like were a couple like he calls me baby, always his holding my hand or puts his hand on my thigh in the car, always hugs me hello and goodbye like long hugs, we’re kiss a lot and cuddle, he’s met my parents, were meeting each others friends this weekend, and he always is telling mere he misses me and asks me to hang.

When I mentioned where he sees things going he said well hopefully eventually u’ll be my boyfriend just not now. That kinda felt like a blow off. Then i said well I really want u to be my boyfriend.

Do you think this will go somewhere and I’m overthinking or something else?

[Finchie40]

It sounds like he just likes the convenience of you and doesn’t want to commit to you , by him not wanting to be your boyfriend was his way of saying he is keeping his options opened.

[CAPLOVE]

Ok, good to know but we’re exclusive so I think it’s all just weird. I’m debating seeing where it goes cause we have been talking for less than a month and I’m meeting his friends Saturday

[Finchie40]

Exclusive on his terms , but not yours. Mark those words

[Summeroflove]

By telling him what you’re looking for and figuring out if you’re compatible. If you’re not then break it off on good terms.

[CAPLOVE]

Ok, thanks!!! This was super helpful

[Summeroflove]

You’re welcome

[Flower7]

It seems fine for right now. As long as too much time doesn’t pass without having a title. But it’s okay while you’re first starting to get to know each other.

[CAPLOVE]

Ok, thanks. How much time is to long?

[Flower7]

About 3 months.

[CAPLOVE]

Ok, good to know

[Valdemort]

You set clear boundaries on what you want in this "situationship" and if he doesn't agree on them, but isn't willing to actually date you, you leave the guy.

[CAPLOVE]

Ok, good to know. Thanks!!! I do think I’ll have a convo with him

[GAGsucksballs89170]

Stop calling it a situationship

[eagle1951]

get to know each other

[CAPLOVE]

We already know each other pretty well but I guessI’ll just try to get to know him better lol