Who is more at fault for the surplus of single mothers, men or women?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

It’s a equal mixture of both…. A lot of people want to have sex without the consequences they don’t want to pay child support, they want to spend all the child support money on themselves not their kids, and so many other things. Narcissists… at best and it’s a massive problem.

It takes two people to have a baby it seems that men making bad choices blame women whereas women making bad choices blame men. Yet they keep choosing to sleep with deadbeats, whores, and losers.

The only ones I feel bad for is the kids. Unless there is a divorce situation or a widow situation. There are moms and dads who made bad choices. But are doing their best to love and raise their kids. All respect to them.

[incorrected]

It's hard to say. Women who have kids to get state benefits and not work tend to tell you the father was a deadbeat, whether they were or weren't is irrelevant though because they were intending on ditching them either way. Then there's actual cases of deadbeat fathers leaving and abusive men being left. There's no real way to get clear numbers on that, though it may help to compare single motherhood figures from around the world and match the figures up between those nations with benefits for single mothers versus those without for some kind of indication.

[Anonymous]

Not picking on women, but it's women I'm sorry to say. Most women are single mothers because of their poor choices. You can't always control what comes into your life. But you can control how you react to it. And the REALITY is we have an epidemic of women in this country who indulge whatever feelings they have and take little to no accountability for their actions/choices.

This would the same response I'd give to men. Except I have even LESS sympathy for men who choose a woman who is a pathological liar. Because men are supposed to be the logical ones. I have little no sympathy for a man who gets got by a woman.

[HungTexan]

It takes two people, a man and a woman to make a baby. But men bailing out is usually a male problem.

[incorrected]

By definition it is. That doesn't mean it's a majority case that single mothers are single due to deadbeats bailing. Depending where you are in the world, single mothers get benefits/welfare payouts, so they go find a deadbeat and purposely have a kid with no intention of building the foundations of a family.

[JonCobretti]

The man for "Leaving for milk and never returning" and the woman for choosing a wrong guy.

[oldpigg]

It is the woman's fault for getting pregnant by a Chad.

[HusamRocks]

Both since they haven't made a good choice for their chosen ex partner

[Staximus]

It takes a woman and a man to make a baby, we are not talking about magic baby Jesus here

[Avicenna]

Speaking generally, both are.

[beefcakebradybatson]

It takes two to tango, and two to procreate.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Both of them. Both of them agreed to the risk.

[Valdemort]

It takes two.

[jahaims]

Both are trashy