Why would a guy say he wants to date a girl but his main focus is sex?

[Anonymous]

She even asked why he wants to date her and have a relationship if it’s only about sex not friends with benefits or fling?

[Anonymous]

Probably for the same reason a woman would say she loves a man but denies him sex.

Who cares! He's either worth your time or he's not. He's not changing! Get on board with that or move on. Nobody said you had to sleep with him. Any DECENT guy will wait till she's ready (albeit he'll still want to the whole time😆), so long as she makes him feel loved. Because that is the bottom line here hun. A woman's honor is a gift that she bestows on worthy men. Maybe not to young skeezers today. But historically it is.

[incorrected]

Some men will lie to get sex, because they want sex. It works.
Some women lie about love because they want resources/money. It works.

People who don't care very much and have no morals will lie to get what they want. ~40% of people cheat. There are a lot of liars. It's unfortunate, and if you're not very good at reading people and you're a bit naive, you'll fall victim to liars more often.

[Flower7]

He is probably telling her what he thinks she wants to hear.

[Anonymous]

Men like that are not worth your time.

[NicholasRedone]

Its a urge like eating, sleeping and drinking water

[ProbablyClueless]

Exclusivity is nice. FWBs are sterile, distant, and unfulfilling

[es20490446e]

The guy may not be familiar with which other dimensions a woman brings into his life.

[In_Trance]

Because the odds of her saying yes to sex are much greater if he tells her he wants more than just sex