Why are some of my coworkers very noisy about if I’m dating or not and that I should?

[Anonymous]

Almost every day this topic comes up I don’t even bring it up myself we can just be all standing and they bring it up like why they care so much , this gay guy was saying that he can even go on a date with me etc I’ve been lately annoyed by this topic and today I kinda snapped and got upset and got that gay dude back bc his like if you keep waiting on god you’ll be single forever I got him back anyways why are they so like that you think they really care or Just noisy

[Valdemort]

They don't have anything interesting to talk about, so they bring up something to entertain themselves with. Just tell them it's alright to keep their mouths shut from time to time, silence is a privilege these days.

[Asker]

But why be “so” concerned about my personal dating life like that

[Valdemort]

Maybe to not have to talk about their own... 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Asker]

Like Jesus why start drama

[Anonymous]

People are nosy. And who wants to get paid to work when you can get paid to be all up in someone else's business.

[Asker]

It why they careeeee so much about my personal life like that

[HungTexan]

They’re just nosy and maybe even a little jealous. Don’t let it get to you.

[Asker]

What makes you think jealous?

[Asker]

Anne bc this same guy said I respect you for waiting unlike some woman that slept with 20 man

[incorrected]

Trust me, most men respect you more if you didn't sleep around. I never once heard a man say he desired a woman who had more 'experience'. Experience can be gained with good communication inside the relationship. Ignore gays and other women being nosy, they're mostly just secretly insecure about their own choices and want you to make the same choices so they can feel better about themselves.

[Asker]

@incorrected I believe you right thank you

[Asker]

@incorrected they keep mentioning for me to go on dating apps or somewhere out door or keep asking others if they know someone for me that’s crazy

[incorrected]

I'd start making stuff up just to mess with them. :P

[Asker]

@incorrected right

[alice55]

they're bored

[Asker]

Possibly but too much interference with my life

[alice55]

Just ignore them to say you do't want to respond but even if you respond they would forget about it

[Asker]

I think they got it now

[alice55]

it's good then