Good start? Or reading in to things?

[Anonymous]

Met an older guy a few years back through work we developed a super supportive friendship. Unfortunately I had some things occur in my life that took awhile to work out,

I am in a wonderful place now and he has continued to be a support and advocate for myself which I’m truly grateful for. I have quickly found myself developing feelings. He has continued to advise me how proud he is of me, thankful for having met me, that I regularly make his day and make sure to pop bye when working. He has also said he’s been waiting to meet up and will continue to wait. However he sometimes seems hesitant to follow through though this could be from me bailing in the past when I was going through things. As he’s assured me there isn’t a reason we shouldn’t meet up. How far out to lunch am I? Am I reading into this too much and he’s just leading me on , any thoughts / perspectives appreciated on what’s going on and how to move forward.

[SueShe]

A guy would never go through all those things if he wasn't interested in the long run to get into your pants. This is no secret that men tick like that.

I would caution you though to be careful what you allow him and what not. Giving him the wrong signals means that you agree with him going that way. Men are simple beings and all they need is a wrong look or word and they think that they have hit the jackpot.

A man will not make compliments if he does not have something up his sleeve and with those compliments, comes the hope to get what he wants.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Sounds like a good start assuming he isn't already taken. I would say your best bet is just to come out and ask him out on a date and see what he says.

If he declines, then you know he was just being friendly and maybe you can salvage that.

If he accepts, however, then you know your basically in and might be able to develop into something more.

Good luck on your attempt, if you decide to do it.

[Avicenna]

You won’t know for sure unless you meet up with him. I suspect he’s interested though.

[molonski2]

Take the lead , call him , organise something utterly fantastic.

[In_Trance]

Gnarly

[Anonymous]

Great Start!