What’s wrong with me? Is there something wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

I’m almost 20 and people ask do I have a boyfriend they’ll act so shock when I say no. They'll ask why. Sometimes they’ll say I don’t get why pretty girl don’t have an boyfriend. It kinda makes me feel bad and inferior.

[ohsheeT]

Well then you need a better answer just because people spit out words to you like I'm doing right now doesn't mean that I'm right a boyfriend for a reason because you're not ready for what otherwise you would have one that's just common sense..

I just answered a question like this earlier most guys look at beautiful girls and they think she is hot she is beautiful I'm sure she has a boyfriend and they leave it alone they respect that but that is not true in so many cases a lot of beautiful women don't have boyfriends because of that reason right there so

When people judge you are they coming to your life and create drama because of something they believe that you should have or not have or who you are or whatever let it go because they're trying to create drama and make something out of nothing and it's not even their business so when people create drama with you you have to just let it go because who are they anyway they're not you

And the other thing is is just because people use words with you don't let those words affect you or make you feel anything notice how I said make you feel anything because you are the only person that can make yourself happy or sad because you are the only person on the inside of you not those other people they can call you a name and if you know you're not that name you just smile and let it go right that's because you know who you are and you don't let people affect you like that because they're trying to make you feel just like they do

Don't allow it to happen you're the only one on the inside of you so you are the only one that can't control how you feel nobody else can have to make it through work it's not how society says it is that we're supposed to feel certain things when people say certain things to us f*** them it holds us all back because it made you think a lot of different things I bet don't allow it to do that be in control of yourself and love yourself that's all that counts those people are not going to be in your life tomorrow anyway or next month or next year they're just there for that moment to create drama to change the course of your life that's it if you fall for it so there's nothing wrong with you at all oh yeah except for you're not smiling you need to do that and then you'll be back to yourself and then you click on the person on the inside and you said I want to be happy right now and you answer yourself LOL and say okay and you walk away with a smile that's what it's all about when you love yourself and don't let other people's words affect you

[Wise4myage]

Nothing is wrong with you, so relax and stop worrying.😊

[Anonymous]

25 and never had an irl boyfriend and in talking to men , I’m happy alone with my dog.

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for mho

[Asker]

Yw ❤️

[whereismyjohnny]

There's nothing wrong with you.

[Anonymous]

What's wrong with you?😆

[Asker]

Not funny

[Opinion Owner]

It's funny you just need to lighten up. There's never going to be a point in life where somebody is not judging you. That doesn't make thier judgements legitimate.👍