Should I worry he’s not sexual with me anymore?

[Anonymous]

Met a guy through an online app 2 months ago. We live far from each other,4 hour drive. We’ve been visiting each other every 2 weeks, things were great. Now since last week, whenever I initiate any sexting, he says he’s working. We still talk all the time, and he initiates most of the conversations. Am I overthinking?

[ohsheeT]

Oh you have to pick better times to call

Don't think negative if you're curious ask the right questions because if he's going to lie to you he will also tell you the truth in the same sentence but you have to be able to listen and hear the words

You since you're far away you can't look into his eyes as you're communicating so that sucks but you can tell by the tone of voice and if there's any distancing in the conversation that will tell you something or you can just ask

Something like are we okay I feel like you're being a little bit distance
I hope I didn't say something and you misunderstood me and if so please tell me so we can fix it that's about all you can do.

But I mean if you used to do s*****
on the phone when you talk. And if he's not doing it anymore you're either calling it the wrong time or something is up

[AnonAndrew]

He might really be working.

He might just not like sexting that much, but doesn't want to upset or hurt you.

He might be losing interest.

Could be any of those. Probably others I didn't think of as well.

But don't read too much into one thing. There's no way to know for sure unless he tells you.

[Asker]

Before he was telling me all kinds of naughty things, and now whenever I say anything sexual he changes the subject, really weird.

[AnonAndrew]

Yes, that is a bit weird.

[Anonymous]

The novelty is wearing off, and that’s normal. Now you’re getting to see who he actually is, and not the version of him that you fell for and that got you into bed.

[slatyb]

Why are you asking us? Ask him. What's the long term plan?

[Drumlin2001]

Ignoring the sexting, what's it like when you meet in person? Are things physical?

[Wise4myage]

Yes, why stay with him if their was no sex?