Okay so me and my boyfriend around a year ago stopped having sex for like 11 months. We started having “more sex” prob like once or maybe if I’m lucky 2 times a month. Well yesterday was our two year anniversary and I wore some sexy lingerie…. He said “oh nice” gave me a kiss and that’s it… like wtf is the problem? Ik I looked so good (especially because I’m more toned and lost some weight) but like whyyy is he not interested? It was a special occasion like? And I told him a month ago (and kept bringing up) I wanted to have sex on our anniversary but apparently he didn’t care that much or gaf I put effort in I love this man so much but like I don’t understand maybe someone’s gone through this or maybe a guy feels the same way he feels but PLEASE help!!!
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You are not the problem here: he's the problem. It sounds like he's asexual, or borderline asexual. That's not something you can change or fix, and it's not something a girl with average sexual needs is going to be compatible with long-term.
The two of you don't have long-term compatibility in my opinion, so I recommend you part ways and that you find (and vet) a guy who is going to be a lot more compatible with you long-term.
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Sorry to say he is either getting it somewhere else, or is not into you anymore.
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Well, you didn't tell us what he says about it. That's the most crucial information here.
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