Boyfriend doesn't initiate sex with me anymore?

[kelsey1234]

My boyfriend shows no interest in having sex with me. We'll go a week without sex before I finally put moves on him and I either get turned down or he'll have sex with me but then his dick will go down after a minute. Why isn't he interested in me anymore? Because we used to fuck like rabbits and now he never wants to. Also is this terms for breaking up? Because I really can't be with someone who doesn't want it as much as me.

[Byakugan]

Is he under a lot of stress?
Is he dealing with depression right now?
Does he overwork?
Eating healthy?
Masturbates too much?
Anxiety?
Alcohol?
Shortage of sleep?

If its any of these, then that would explain it.

All of those i`ve mentioned above is what decreases sexual desire

[Byakugan]

Is he eating healthy?

[kelsey1234]

Says needs strawberries

[GingerGuy]

Talk to him about it. Ask him how he feels but also tell him how you feel, like you have here. All about communication. The worst thing you can do is not communicate and make assumptions. But, he also needs to communicate with you. It's a two way street.

[kelsey1234]

Yeah he tells me it's just a health issue or something and I shouldn't take it personally but it's hard not to, you know?

[GingerGuy]

Then it's important for you to let him know how you feel. Maybe he'll make more of an effort if he knows? But if he thinks your fine (and he will probably if you don't say anything), then it will just continue.

[kelsey1234]

It comes up enough in our conversations. I've let him know that it makes me feel like I'm unacttractive and he tells me not to think like that, and it's a health issue. It's really really hard not to feel upset by it

[GingerGuy]

Maybe he's too selfish then? Because if I knew how you felt, even if I didn't feel into it, I would make some kind of effort with you, to show I cared about you.

[kelsey1234]

He does great that feels worse

[OnlyYouKnowThat]

Either:
-He has something going on in his life that is stressing him.
-He has a health issue.
-He's met somebody else.
-He's not attracted to you anymore.

[kelsey1234]

He's with me every day, and I know he isn't cheating on me. Why would he stay if not attracted?

[OnlyYouKnowThat]

So you've ruled out two of the options, what's left?

[kelsey1234]

I think he isn't attracted to me anymore but then why would he stay it's bullshit

[OnlyYouKnowThat]

Well there's attraction and then there is emotional connection. He may not be attracted to you but he may still feel comfortable and secure with you.

[Philyouup]

Gota talk before you do anything... If you live together, he may be stressing about bills, or time, or working longer hours May have issues at work.. Or his trust in you might be damaged by something you are not aware of.. TALK

[kelsey1234]

He has anxiety or something

[Philyouup]

yeah it Boner Killer

[_dardorsama_]

Maybe he's stressed out lately

Just talk to him about it and see what he have to say

[kelsey1234]

I did and he makes up a different reason every time.

[_dardorsama_]

Have you been into a fight recently? over something and you thought the fight is over

[kelsey1234]

We fight a lot.. I'm trying to stop that

[_dardorsama_]

Maybe that's it

You can expect from him to has an erection while you always fighting

[karim97]

I think he isn't interested in you anymore. Try to ask him
He might have someone else in his life who he sleeps with

[stormbreaker06]

you need a MAN. not a BOYfriend.

[kelsey1234]

What do you mean by that?

[stormbreaker06]

A man is direct, takes care of his duties and is mature. a Boy is a boy.

[OfDeath]

Maybe he has a side chick

[kelsey1234]

Nope I track his location

[OfDeath]

Interesting. Perhaps he feels you are smothering him.

[kelsey1234]

He actually used that word yesterday.

[OfDeath]

Well there you go.

[Anonymous]

or you can do something to lower your drive

[kelsey1234]

True but I think twice a week is normal.

[Opinion Owner]

they say even 3 times a week is what it should be

[kelsey1234]

Ideally yeah

[kitt23]

Talk to him

[kelsey1234]

I try

[kitt23]

message me.

[kelsey1234]

I have to be level 2

[kitt23]

I can do it. Follow me

[Hugemoth]

You've gone loose

[kelsey1234]

I don't think it's that.. I don't have a child, he's my first long term relationship.

[Hugemoth]

You've become boring.

[kelsey1234]

Yeah that's what I think

[Hugemoth]

sad.