Let me be clear: It is absolutely not because of you.
I'm a guy who has a low/nonexistant sex drive, it's not because i don't find my girlfriend attractive, or because i dont love her anymore, I simply don't feel like having sex, and your guy's feeling the same.
He told you his reasons, but don't go looking for "hints" or any other form of hidden meanings, because there are none. Guys are always to the point, so when a guy says something, that's litterally what he means.
If you don't feel comfortable with less/no sex, tell him. Tell him that you do want some sexual activity and give suggestions what could be done, maybe he could get you off, or you could fap together, there are a lot of solutions, but just be open and clear with him, and don't overthink or take it personally
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He told you why. He cums too quickly. I mean imagine if yoy two had sex and it was over in 5 minutes. That would leave you grossly unsatisfied, and him extremely embarrassed. Frequentpy having sex does not improve sex duration. I beleive he is using the notion of being lazy to hide his embarrassment. Tell him that you feel unwanted. Have him do thing to you (eg going down on you). If you cum multiple times before intercourse, his duration shouldn't be a huge factor.
Too improve his duration, have him do kegel exercises.
Best of luck
If you are in a long term relationship then you need to stop calling it "hooking up".
That term is only used when you are having sex without any relationship involved at all.
Yes girl! Please find out if he's cheating on you. Honestly it's weird to see a guy lose his sex drive.
Be rational and think clearly.
Have you tried to suggest new things to do in the bed? Maybe he's just bored or wants you to play a more dominant role?
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I've had simliar feelings before, but id still want to have sex. Why not ask him if you can watch or jerk him of, blow job? So you can get some satisfaction and knowledge, that he is getting off to you. you'll also be able to tell if he is just lazy. You could also ask if you can get on top and do all the work?
you could offer to blow him or jack him off instead of have sex
Tie him up, blind fold him, and just go on top and ride him.
I`m sure he`ll like it... altho that would be considered r@p< lolCome to me
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