My boyfriend & I have been together for a little under a year. He works construction and goes to work around 4am and comes home at 5-6pm depending on the day. Just recently he's been avoiding sex. He keeps saying he's too tired from work. He comes home and will sit on the couch for 2 hours or in bed playing games on his phone until it's time to go to bed at 9. We barely get enough time to talk to one another. I ask him if we can have sex and he says he's too tired. On his days off I try to touch him and he will shoot up from bed and say "I have to pee" and come back and start doing something else like get ready. I offer to give him oral sex and he says he's too tired. I'm sick of feeling like I'm begging for any attention. Even just to cuddle or kiss seems like a chore to him. Cheating could be a possibility but I try not to think like that. I just don't know why he's acting so distant.
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It has turned into such a bad fight that he actually broke up with me over it because he said he can't please me or I'm expecting too much out of him.
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