My boyfriend and I have been together almost 3 years and we hardly has sex with me anymore. We used to have sex all the time in the beginning of our relationship but figures since it's the "honeymoon stage". He blames me for how I treat him yet I back off and I still don't see him trying to and we pretty much only have sex now once a week or goes longer than that! A lot of times I have to say something too cuz he won't make a move. Tired of it! And he says something is wrong with me because I always want sex, that's all I want. He's a guy and doesn't want sex... that's something wrong! I also had him stop smoking weed two years ago and sometimes it feels he won't on purpose since I won't let him smoke likes it's a child's game but I don't know. Maybe weed always made him want to? And now that he doesn't smoke he just want to? I don't get it! He just always has an excuse. No there is no cheating. We work at the same place, have the same schedule and carpool together. I've looked at his phone and nothing on his phone other than fishing, hunting and guns! He doesn't wack himself off either and I know for sure he doesn't since like I said we have same schedule and I am always around when he is at home and he never takes showers by himself. He makes excuses... my balls are sweaty and stinky, I'm tired, your being a bitch so who's gonna wanna have sex with you like that, etc yet when things are fine between us and I'm not "being a bitch" he is still never trying and just rather lay there and eat and watch tv when we get home from work or when we get up watch Tv and eat!
He doesn't want sex?
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