Why would a guy not want sex?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been dating him for months now. We started off having sex but then we stop. All he wants now days is oral sex. Its the weirdest thing because I’m use to guy just wanting sex. But him no. We sleep in the same bed. I mean we are pretty much doing everything but sex. We recently purchased a car together. He wants me to quit my job and work for him. He calls me babe, my queen, and baby. I met his friends, Im around his kids. He pays some of my bills. But no sex it drives me crazy. I’ve asked him why he doesn’t want sex. I even told him it won’t hurt my feelings if he’s not into it. I just need to know. He refuses to give me an answer. Why would a guy not want sex?

[Noahzaid]

You deserve a sincere and direct answer.

Don’t forget that sex in a relationship isn’t privilege, It a human right.

If he was bad at sex, I would have told you not to get mad but him not having sex is a big problem.

[Asker]

Exactly, I can understand if we never had sex. Buy he just stopped and will not give me an answer. I don’t bug him about it. I’m still there for him. I just want to know why. He had no issues asking for oral

[Noahzaid]

I don’t know him but him asking for oral gives me the impression that he’s selfish.
He’s the only one getting the cut out of it.
Him and you need to acknowledge that you want to have sex and that’s your basic right that you should be getting from your partner.

[Anonymous]

You ever consider he’s getting it from another girl?

[chrissykerdock]

i've had 2 guys who only wanted oral sex from me... on one hand it must mean i give head and on the other it means they don't want intercourse... well i gave them oral sex and didn't complain about it because they were at least wanting to be intimate with me and asked for oral often... sometimes several times a day.

[Truth0225]

Maybe he has a problem getting it up

[In_Trance]

he'd have to tell you. nobody else will know.