My girlfriend doesn't like to have sex before marriage, neither she do sex chat in video calls nor in text etc, she doesn't even tell me when she get sexual arousal she just ignore her sexual feelings and mine too. I have talked her a lot about this but she clearly says no. Recently, I met my ex she told me that she is single for quite a long time and she has a lot of sex drive and wanted me to met her occasionally like once in a month or twice for sex only until she finds someone else or she marry someone. I refused her and told her that I'm committed to someone else and I can't cheat on her, but it's been two years since I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend we I'm not getting pleasure even in chats and I want sex badly I have two options 1. Go for sex works 2. Bs in touch with my ex. But I want to do this with her (my girlfriend's) consent. Should I directly ask her about this I don't want to ruin my relationship I want to marry her.
PS: she also wants to marry me but not now she needs a year or two. I have introduced her to my parents but she has not told her parents yet. She said she will tell after few months and will marry next year or a year after that.
PS: she also wants to marry me but not now she needs a year or two. I have introduced her to my parents but she has not told her parents yet. She said she will tell after few months and will marry next year or a year after that.
