My boyfriend does not want to have sex with me?

[Anonymous]

Hey everybody!
Me and my boyfriend are together since 2012. I was young so we started having sex after a year. Now, I have to say that he is older than me by 12 years. Sex at the beginning was very painful as his cock is 6 inches and really, really thick. Girls can imagine. So, I didn’t really enjoy it. I was very stressed when it comes to sex and I was looking at it as something that just has to be done, not as something people do for pleasure. And of course I wasn’t very excited about it.
Now, as I get older and we did have sex many times, I don’t know why but my sex drive is higher. I guess I am not that tight... and I truly enjoy it.
Anyways, he doesn’t want me anymore. He was away for 4 days and when he came back we didn’t do anything because he was tired. The night after he told me that he was used to the sex life we had and he doesn’t want sex anymore because I didn’t want it as often as he wanted before. And he also asked me how that happened? Me having no sex drive for years and now I can be turned on just by few words lol.
What should I do?

[TheBaard]

I think maybe it's Nature's cruel practical joke men reach their sexual peak at 18 in women's reach there's around their 40s maybe has testosterone problem maybe there's a lot on his mind there could be all kinds of reasons be careful and not considered the one you ask

[Asker]

Thank you 🙂

[TheBaard]

No problem I'm worried here in another 5 years I'm going to be there too for he is at least I'm sorry for where your at I hope it works out

[Guy_No12]

That's a really shitty attitude he's taking. And he should be glad that your so willing and compliant,
May I ask you, when he does have sex with you, is he very loving and giving, I mean does he focus on giving you lots of pleasure through foreplay etc

[Asker]

Not really, he focuses on analysing me, because he thinks I’m faking it.

[Guy_No12]

So he's not very attentive, does he not spend a long time kidding and caressing you

[Asker]

No, he doesn’t..

[Guy_No12]

Kissing , not kidding

[Guy_No12]

Does he go down on you and really feast on you

[Asker]

Erm, yes...

[Guy_No12]

So he loves giving you oral

[Asker]

I guess he does

[Guy_No12]

Do you have lots of orgasms

[Asker]

No..

[Guy_No12]

So he's not very good at it, how about breast and nipple play

[Asker]

That would work

[Guy_No12]

Do you like having your breasts and nipples sucked and bitten

[Asker]

How is that relevant to my question

[Guy_No12]

I just wondered if it's something you enjoy, and whether you could ask him for

[Guy_No12]

Or maybe ask if there's anything that he'd really like to try with you

[Guy_No12]

Are you happy with him in general

[Asker]

Yes, I would say I am.

[Guy_No12]

So what about my other questions

[CatInLove]

This is a major red flag. He should be all over you... not playing these games.

[Unesjomajo]

He is probably eating somewhere else...

[wilco999]

Lol eating somewhere else? What a lovely image

[Unesjomajo]

@wilco999 its not that lovely for the asker ;(

[wilco999]

I didn't mean disrespect to the OP, just never heard it called "eating somewhere else" before

[Steveram9]

You both should be more romantic! Sex is not a duty!

[reptocarl]

Tell him to put out or get out

[Shyesha]

He's probably cheating on u

[mcget]

He has to fuck you and stop being an idiot...

[dragon9669]

He's cheating or going gay

[Good_Behavior]

It's just timing. Rhythms take time to readjust

[Mattbowles]

How often you haveing at the moment

[Asker]

2 times a month if I am lucky

[Mattbowles]

Really when your in bed with him at night do you try to turn him on

[Mattbowles]

Pm if you want and we can chat if you want

[Asker]

Pm me because I can’t, don’t have enough points

[Mattbowles]

Really I just tried it won't let me :/ do you have Kik or any thing

[Mattbowles]

You need to follow me then it will let me

[Asker]

Done

[NerdInDenial]

Get a dildo

[Anonymous]

Get your fingers ready

[Anonymous]

spice things up w lingerie

[youngfungentleman]

Cheating on you

[DTF510]

Shit I'll bang you

[Anonymous]

find someone else