Girls, do you believe guys\boyfriend (sees blue) miss understand you because you’re a girl? (sees pink)?

[aquamarine321]

Yes, guys/boyfriend miss understand me

No, guys/boyfriend don’t miss understand me

Other

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Girls do you think because you’re a female , guys don’t fully understand your sexuality feelings, emotions, the things that makes you, you

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Girls do you think because you’re a female , guys don’t fully understand your sexuality feelings, emotions, the things that makes you, you

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Girls do you think because you’re a female , guys don’t fully understand your sexuality feelings, emotions, the things that makes you, you

[MillieBee1993]

That difference in perspective is not always a bad thing. Though when we mature, we learn to visualize and respect all different sides to a situation. I once dated a man for a few months who "saw blue" while I "saw pink" I adjusted my vision to see both sides, both pink and blue, but he only focused on himself and his perception was always right, he only saw one way.
Due to that lack of ability, lack of emotional intelligence, and lack of being Always right, when he was not - it posed too many challenges for the relationship to grow or thrive.

If anyone sees this, and has a partner only seeing blue, or pink, please ensure they are actively trying to work on understanding YOUR perspective, and trying to see situations in equal light.

[DishLady]

Folks who want to misunderstand you based on your gender will do so no matter what.

[AnonAndrew]

@DishLady
I think he's talking about the cases where they don't want to misunderstand you.

[4ngelic]

sometimes yea. there's times where guys dont really get why you think certain things or act in certain ways (to do with gender differences), or they might interpret your behaviors through a male lense, missing the mark

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yes they do, often because when I tell them I’m asexual and have no interest in sex many can’t fathom living like that

[Ms_Facesitter]

No. Just be straight forward and everything will is fine between us.