Guys do you even notice if girls were something special for you?

[19magic]

Like if your girlriend weres lingerie a nice set which costs £20-30 the least you can do is compliment her in it aka your the sexiest woman/lady alive, you look so hot that all I wanna do is tear that right off you and fuck you now, I'm glad I'm the only one who gets to see you like this... Ya know something to say you appreciate it.

Okay... Rant over 🤔

But seriously I went shopping with my mate before Christmas and she decided that for the first time in two years of dating she's going to do something special for him and we looked in several shops till she brought something that would have looked really good on her, and hopefully for him too. So I asked her how it went, and did he get flustered/hot for her and she said it was a waste of time he didn't even notice it was anything special 🙄 she said she's never wore lace before, all her underwear is typically in packs so no fancy patterns or anything, and not one single comment even though she wore thongs and not girls boxers.

So guys (and girls) if your girlfriend gets dolled up in lingerie please please please say something about it, say you liked it or something along those lines. Makes me think there's no point in doing something similar for any future boyfriend I may have.

[Jjpayne]

I will say this, unfortunately guys are pretty focused.

You get a new haircut,

Or a new dress

Or clean the house

Us guys can be pretty dense Sometimes... Myself included...
Sometimes you need that who wants to be a millionaire question
"Well! Do you notice anything different!"

Then as a guy you really have to think... But unfortunately most of the time guys just give 😂 and a girl will say what happened and a guy will go meh. It's the most annoying thing in the world!

You could spend the entire day picking it out or getting it done and you get very little thanks for it 🙄 😠

But too be fair

A guy can spend all day working on a car

And she might go, yeah yeah but does it run better 😠

And all day picking out a comic book

To find that her response is meh 😅

So I think it trades off Sometimes but I think for both Genders we need to agree to be more interested and happy for each other even if we don't understand the ritual it took to get there we should still appreciate what they did.

But girls, again, you might have to bring it to our attention 😅

[jmfillin1]

I don't know. Sure the thought matters, but typically I see the outfit on her for about 2 minutes max before I see it on the floor. Most dudes (I'd imagine) would rather focus on the person beneath the fabric, as "it's what on the inside that matters." With that said, ugly underwear is a definite turnoff, but a dude will likely never know (or care) about the difference between a $150 outfit vs a $20 one.

[Anonymous]

I’ve gotten what I thought was dressed up in nice clothes I usually mostly wear track pants but I decided to put on a dress one time he didn’t notice another time I put on some clothes all brought brand new and they weren’t cheap again he didn’t notice didn’t even say anything which I have come to learn after all these years him not saying anything is basically his way of telling me he doesn’t like what I am wearing even though I don’t really show any skin I never have and he personally doesn’t like when a girl shows too much skin either

[Opinion Owner]

Not complaining it is what it is

[jennifer_bloom]

It’s possible he prefers the natural looking woman to the woman who is glossed up in expensive sex gear cause guys have different aesthetic interests in their girls - Like I used to be interested in a guy who wanted me to cut my hair shot like a boys cause he thought it would make me look more intelligent and around 98% of people would agree I look worse with short hair but this guy had a viewpoint that was different from theirs

[ShadezMcgee]

Well, that's unfortunate for your friend, but an isolated incident like that isn't reason to think men don't notice when their girl gets dolled up.

Perfect example, my girlfriend got her hair done over a week ago and it was the first thing I noticed since her hair is very dark brown, I noticed the lighter contrast and wavy style compared to her straight or bun style. Commented on it and she lit up.

We notice. We just may not voice it every time we do.

[19magic]

Yeah I understand that, it's just a little off putting you know like if one person is like that it's likely there's more and going off this post it's a curious point

[Kurαȷ]

Your friend made the mistake of assuming that her man cares about lingerie.
Some do, but many definitely do not.

If you don't want to make the same mistake, try doing this thing called "communication" with your partner, and I guarantee you won't run into any such problems.

[19magic]

So there's no teasing in a relationship ya know by showing almost everything but not quite, besides if she told him it wouldn't be a surprise, I mean I don't know exactly how she showed him so I dunno if they just undressed each other and then had sex or what

[Kurαȷ]

Not all people care for teasing or lace lingerie.
You don't have to ask "what if I bought a $30 set of lingerie and wore it next week, would that be sexy?".
Something like "what kind of lingerie do you like?" would entirely suffice.

If someone asked me that, I'd tell them that I just don't really care for lingerie, and I'd suggest to them the other things I like, so if they want to do something for me they can do the right thing.
That's what I mean by communication.

[19magic]

I didn't mean quite like that sorry, it's just other than food or toys both of which they've done together already and the latter isn't something they were into, so she wanted to do something different so I convinced her to go for it and now she feels a bit meh about it and I feel a bit bad about it I always thought it'll be something they'd like

[pierre7i]

Tbh my favourite at times a girl & I spend the night or weekend together is when she wears nice short boxer shorts as underwear, with nothing underneath but her prettily sexual nakedness -- and I do tell her how I like that !

[WesBrewer]

I noticed when my previous girls bought or did something nice for/to me, and I complimented them as well as reciprocating. so I guess I already do that.

[Sofia123sofia]

I think some of boys do notice, Every-time i wear something new my boyfriend notice that, even if i have new earrings he will notice that.

[Mt808]

Make them earn you. Set your standards and expectations high!!! Then you’ll meet the one who actually deserves you!!!

[JJQuinn]

I don't really notice price/quality so much as I do different and/or effort. So I would notice, but not necessarily know/care the cost? If that makes sense.

[19magic]

Yeah I'm not expecting guys to know how much things cost just that it's different from what she would normally wear

[winterfox10]

Obviously we notice if she was special to us. Sometimes we don't see the same value in the woman/relationship as the woman does though. Men and women have a tricky, complicated relationship.

[TallAnon]

Depends how well I know her, otherwise I'd think it's a coincidence.

[19magic]

She knew of him for 9 years, friends for about 5 years and dating for two years by that point

[TallAnon]

Should probably notice that, lol

[Wiredone]

I always notice and compliment when my girl wears something new. She has worn sexy lingerie for me on several occasions. Of course I told her how hot she looks in it and that I love it on her.

[yofuknutz]

We notice we just don't play that game with you so we play aloof instead

[psychoticanimallover]

The whole set costs £20-30? Where do you usually shop, Asda? Bring on the Bangladeshi child workers, woo!!

[19magic]

We got it from Ann summers, I mean i normally go to matalan so it's not so unbelievable

[tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ]

Guys don't give a shit about girls clothing, only other girls do.

[tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ]

Feel free to wear a garbage bag we don't care.

[yofuknutz]

I still would hit that

[BeachLuvR97]

The word is "wear."

"Were" indicates of state of "having been."

[19magic]

Oh sorry your highness, I made a typo, it happens

[ohshee]

Yes I notice everythingb

[bklynbadboy1]

I'd notice immediately