So I am single and been for a good minute?

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I am a bit overweight anyways my cousins came over haven’t seen them for over a year my moms sisters husband commented to my mom that I am a beautiful girl but I’m a bit chubby and guys prefer fit and in shape woman over chunky ones and that since I want to marry it’s a less chance for me to get Married bc I’m overweight and he didn’t want to tell me to my face so he told my mom yet he did tell me personally that I’m beautiful and there are far more chubbier woman than me as if I asked for his opinion and yea what are you’re thoughts on this

ohsheeT · Answer

Well to be honest with you just from my point of view and me myself I would say that he's right even though there are guys out there and I really don't want to say this because I don't want you to take it wrong and think it's okay to be heavy but there are guys out there that like heavier women but it's like a fetish to them

I mean it's your choice on who you want to be in life and nobody else could tell you who to be how to be or anything like that and don't listen to anybody that does because it's your happiness and only your happiness counts..

But you need to ask yourself what do you think about it because that's the truth opinion that counts

A lot of heavier people are just kind of lazy or and it's hard for them to do any exercise because it hurts their body and the bigger you get the more it hurts.

But I can tell you this if you believe that he is right and you want to change but only if you want to change for you and that's it.

If you took 30 minutes out of your day and walked around the block or just walk for 30 minutes a day for 30 days had a pretty good fast pace I guarantee you after that 30 days you will become a different person especially if you walk in a fast pace no more so the waters no more sugary drinks no more sugar really except for good fruit

And as you walking if you breathe in through your nose and out through your nose only that means you're feeding your blood system oxygen real oxygen when you breathe through your mouth you're not breathing in oxygen you breathing in air you need oxygen to feed all your vital organs and they start working better it starts clearing your head and you start getting clarity and it's all the sudden you have to walk because your body craves that feeling that freedom and the health part of it is just unreal but if you were to do that and commit to that for 30 days or 30 minutes a day you will see an absolutely big change I guarantee it every part of your body will start toning like you will not believe you will look different you will feel different you will be different guaranteed

Zack-Bann · Answer

Unsolicited opinions are never nice

Is what he said true? Yeah unfortunately.

Doesn’t mean it’s his place to say anything

I lived my whole life on the overweight side of the scale and many people have done this thinking they’re doing me a favor.
None of them was my “savior” though

Weight loss is not a goal
It’s an outcome of different lifestyle choices.
And unless the person is willing to live a different lifestyle nothing anyone says will make a difference.

So forget about him. It’s your body and your business.
If you’re choosing the hard road of changing you’re doing it for yourself and by yourself.

bowenw · Answer

He should keep his thoughts to himself on your appearance unless he is asked by you. He also shouldn't be talking about you behind your back.

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