Girls, I have been single for 24 years?

[crod420]

i have been struggling to find a girlfriend and i am catholic and i have been praying every night for hope and i am feeling very lonely

[SueShe]

Okay, you beat me by 4 years...

You seem desperate to get into trouble. Don't!. Not everything is rosy when you are in a relation. But if you are impatient to get into trouble, here are a few tips.

You are the only one that can help that situation.

In order to have a girlfriend, you must be pro-active and find friends. They will not just pop up in your life without you being involved in the relation. Best is to join a club, take a hobby where you can meet people with similar interests.

If you are good at one specific occupation, then see if you can find a club or place where others meet that share that passion. The rest will just fall automatically into place. Sharing the same interests with a person is always a good start to get to know that person better because you have common grounds.

But you have to work on yourself first. That would include shyness and possible social anxiety.

You can train your approach, your attitude and expression in front of a mirror for example. Think of what message you want to bring across and rehearse it until you are satisfied. The next step is the most difficult one and that is the one where you have to put in practice what you learned and rehearsed.

But without you wanting and acting upon it, nothing will ever happen. You have to get out of your comfort zone for it to happen. The most important is not to be afraid to fail. If you are rejected, get back onto your feet and try again.

[crod420]

thank u for the advice

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Okay. Sorry to hear that. How are we supposed to help?


Have you tried going on dates and approaching women?

[crod420]

i've tried but no hope

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Do you have friends, classmates, coworkers, family friends?

[crod420]

no all friends went their routes

[Sour-rose]

Stop... praying?

When she comes, she'll come. Enjoy your time being single. You won't get it back easily once she comes.

[crod420]

so u think i should just wait until she comes to me?

[Sour-rose]

Yes. It sounds like a good idea but do you literally wanna be spending all your time and effort trying to find her when you could either wait for and make a move when it feels right? Ooor make a move whenever to the point you get nothing but failure and just say to hell with it? :)

[Ez-Bri-Z]

So besides praying, what else have you done specifically to remedy it?

[crod420]

well i talk to women but it's just isn't there