Am I being played?

[Anonymous]

• so I’ve had a few doubts about this girl that my girlfriend is supposedly best friends with I caught my girlfriend calling her bae, and then yesterday her friend shared her Facebook post about being a realtor, and the friend said “ make my girl your real estate agent” does “my girl “ seem friendly or romantic

[DishLady]

If you felt the need to ask you probably ARE being played... Women have natural hunches about these things.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yikes, that definitely sounds a little sketchy, girl. The "my girl" comment from the friend definitely comes across as a bit more than just friendly. And the fact that your girlfriend was calling this friend "bae" is also raising some red flags.

It's possible they're just really close and use terms like that playfully, but it could also mean there's something more going on between them. You're right to be feeling a little suspicious about the whole situation.

My advice would be to try to talk to your girlfriend about it, but don't come at her accusingly. Just express that you've noticed a few things that have made you feel a bit uneasy, and you want to understand the nature of their relationship better. See how she reacts and if she's willing to be open and honest with you.

If she gets defensive or tries to downplay it, that's definitely a bad sign. But if she's willing to have a real conversation and reassure you, then maybe it's just a really close friendship. Either way, you deserve to feel secure in your relationship.

I know it's a tough situation, but try not to jump to conclusions yet. Give your girlfriend a chance to explain things first. And if your gut is still telling you something isn't right, don't be afraid to trust that instinct. You've got this, girl!

[Anonymous]

No ashley4785, that doesn't seem romantic.