What should I do if I have a crush on my sister's boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

You should seriously contemplate all the consequences of pursuing your sister's boyfriend:

1. You will forever - FOREVER - destroy the relationship with your sister. TOTALLY AND FOREVER.

2. Your parents may not disown you but they will be deeply ashamed of you and they will resent all of the trouble you have caused.

3. If you convince your sister's boyfriend to slip you the sausage, it will be only casual sex with no commitment. After all, why should he see you as a serious prospect when you were so disloyal to your sister. . . and why should you think of him as a serious prospect when he cheated on your sister?

4. Think about how you would feel if your sister had chased after and stolen one of your boyfriends. Yeah, she's cuter and more mature and she could have seduced any one of them. She could have stolen any one of them away from you.

If all of this is not enough to convince you and you are just so damned horny that you need to get fucked, go buy yourself an industrial-strength vibrator.

If you had ever had a partner betray you (I have had that experience twice,) you would not even consider doing anything to inflict that pain on anyone else.

[Finchie40]

You are best not to act on it and move on , you should never cross the line with your family. Your sister would be devastated if you did that to her

[Screenwriter]

I'm sure he's a nice guy or your sister wouldn't be with him. It's complimentary of you to like a nice guy. But he's your sister's boyfriend.

Be friendly with him and enjoy seeing him. Look at him as a big brother.

I had crushes on my brother's classmates. He had a HOST of cute dudes. But they were far older than me and not interested. Just as your sister's boyfriend is not interested in your. Like him from afar and look for someone in your own groups. You'll have plenty of opportunities to meet hunks next door.

[DishLady]

First of all... yuck. I'm sure your parents taught you to share, but this is an off-limits thing. Check out the 10 Commandments... there's a line about this.

Next, just let it pass. It's not like that's the only guy on the planet.

[strateguy632]

Huh? She was not asking about a brother in law!

[strateguy632]

Also lev. 20 is his sin. Maybe she is not commanded about that.

[DishLady]

@strateguy632 Think of it this way. There's some guy fucking your sister... you know where his junk's been. You NEED to have THAT guy? No.

Also "covet thy neighbor's wife" is the old translation. I don't think it takes a rocket scientist to know that it's not something one-way... "cover thy neighbor's spouse/SO" is a reasonable translation if not there's "don't cover thy neighbor's goods..." and so we're all nice and tidy bc God saw millenial and genz idiots in his crystal ball. Don't try to justify unethical junk.

[ShellyB]

If you do ANYTHING and I mean ANYTHING about this, you are likely to have bad feelings and problems w your sister for years and years possibly forever. Just find a different guy. JMO!

[Summeroflove]

You NEVER pursue it…. EVER…..

[emeraldsaphire]

It's only natural too have those feelings, but you need to let them go and move on. If you sleep with him or you try to break them up it could damage your family relationship forever. Now lets say they brake up organically and it's been a year, ask your sister first before asking him out :P

[Wise4myage]

Great post.

[naartjie]

There are SO many people out there, you do NOT need to ruin your family to get a man. You and him also wouldn’t last if that is the route you’re willing to take to get him! A relationship built on another woman’s tears won’t last.

[Anonymous]

My sister used to flirt with my ex when I first introduced him and would make comments comparing him to her first boyfriend the one she lost her v card to. It used to hurt my feelings, he never reciprocated but didn’t make it less awkward. You should stay away from them and focus on your own life.

[Shiprex]

Admire and be happy for your sister. Don't pursue your lust and let them see things through. There are others out there who will rock your world as much

[dustybiker2]

Use birth control or it will really get ugly.

[strateguy632]

Communication is critical. Tell him you "hope he picks you over your sister because you feel attracted.".

[AnonAndrew]

Take a cold shower. Mediate. Whatever help you control yourself.

Don't go for your sister's boyfriend. It would end in disaster.

[Marathonmama]

Don’t pursue it he’s got a nice body but he’s not that good looking anyway. Got a hot guy instead 😉

[Joshydavid25]

Maybe delete the pictures of him, and find yourself your own guy.. It's probably best to distance yourself as well..

[HelpfulWoman]

1) don't post their photos on gag

2) get over it. he's taken.

[Flower7]

You should do nothing. Just stay away from him and don’t be around him.

[glennos89]

The fact that you actually have to ask this question says a lot about you as a person. I'm glad your not my sister

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Depends on how messy you’re ready to get and how many relationships you’re willing to destroy.

[GoodEnoughThen]

Secretly, tell the guy as soon as possible. No no no... don't do this. ;)

[GoodEnoughThen]

I would focus on being genuinely happy for and respectful toward for your sister. Your intense feelings should subside. If you make a move on the guy you risk breaking the trust bond with your sister. Again... your sister.

[exitseven]

Was it like this?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/txTEhgReZUA

[OneViewpoint]

You have 2 choices...

1.) Bang him!

2.) Three way with your sister.

[molonski2]

Just make a play and see how it goes , make it pretty obvious , good luck to you.

[more_than_a_guy]

I don't think it's good that you posted pictures of him.

Anyways, move on, keep being busy doing something else and maybe even keep distance from him until your feelings are over.

[Drumlin2001]

Admit to her you're a bad sister and stay the hell away from him

[Bklynbadboy12]

That okay the you have a crush on him but DON'T act on it!!!¡

[red-lipstick-girl]

Stop being a slut

[Agape93]

Crush the feelings and show respect

[Jennz6]

Stop thinking about him

[DrPepper12]

Bury it. Deep.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

He's disgusting but she looks hot.

[Wise4myage]

Leave him alone and find another dude.

[Danny_dan92]

Find another guy? Stop being a hoe

[PrincessC1678]

Stop! Get it out of your head.

[Staximus]

Never put a guy between you and your sister

[Staximus]

Go find your own guy

[shortster]

See if he has a brother?

[funnyguy11]

Leave him alone.. by the way Your sister is hot😄

[Valdemort]

Nothing.

[Anonymous]

Leave them alone

[nawtee_me]

A threesome maybe?

[MrTaboo]

threesome

[Anonymous]

Keep your distance

[masterSir]

threesome