Would you rather date someone whose ex still loves them or someone who's never dated before?

[HawkPerception]

This is a hypothetical question. There is no option to choose none.

Someone whose ex still loves them

Someone who's never been in a relationship before

[Drumlin2001]

Look up Kyle Clifford. I wouldn't want some psycho ex in the picture, never sure what they are capable of. Especially as I have two young kids, not putting them anywhere near drama.
Someone with no experience of a relationship is a difficult one, but better of the two choices

[MicahRaine]

Definitely someone who's never been in a relationship before

[DishLady]

At my age it would be odd to expect someone to never have dates before, so by default that leaves me with the other option.


But even when I was in college the guys all tended to have had dating history. Some had sob stories about exes (ironically the emotionally unavailable guys), some had exes but never spoke of them.

[Zack-Bann]

I did both back to back just 2 years ago


Pros and cons on both experiences


Ultimately I did prefer the relationship I had with the girl that had no prior trauma
But the other girl knew how to light a spark in the room.


Basically in the second relationship I had to do a lot of the heavy lifting when it came to having passion in the relationship even though my girlfriend couldn’t get her hands off me and it was cute to watch her get flustered because she’s never had a romantic relationship before

[TheSpaceGnome]

A woman who's never been in a relationship before is obviously ideal, but as long as she's a virgin, clean, and doesn't love him, thats enough.

Well... as long as the reason they broke up was him being deceitful, or her going through the phase of "maybe he doesn't have to be a perfect match.. oh, no wait ok yeah he does". (I went through that phase with the women I picked initially)

Otherwise I'd worry she'd randomly dump me as it puts into question her ability to know what guy to pick/know what she wants in a guy.

[Joshydavid25]

I've been with the first one, and sheesh, it's terrible.. Love bombed me and made me feel like the greatest thing since the invention of the washing machine, and then all of a sudden, it's gone.. Of course other factors played into it as well, but that was definitely the main one.. It's the second one no contest.. In fact the second one can be more of a green flag..

[Crimsyjo]

Don't mind at all but 2nd option easier. Esp if in 1st option there's kids involved so ex still gotta be in the picture.

[wydadman]

Someone who has never been in relationship is the holy grail for men. You can add many other cons, there will be boys preferring someone never in relationship!

[pav616]

Ex's are always a pain in the ass. In every relationship I have ever been in an ex has caused issues

[Oldschool1981]

My wife still has sex with her ex once in a while

[HawkPerception]

And you're okay with that?

[Oldschool1981]

Sure, so long as she doesn't get pregnant

[exitseven]

Truthfully I would not care one way or the other.

[Valdemort]

Never in a relationship before.

[NicholasRedone]

I'm clearly B lol so I voted B 💘 💘 😈

[Caroline005]

Option 2. I’m not a consolation prize.

[Priya99999]

I leave it for them to choose between me and his ex..

Besides, I know true love

[Jennz6]

Never dated anyone before

[Ladsin2]

B obviously XD

[sawno]

Whoever I like the most as a person.

[Dongie]

Never soiled.

[dustybiker2]

Love