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Do you think one person can be the one or do you think many people come into our lives to teach us lessons?
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2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. We are all soulmates. We all come frome the same place. And the goal in life is to believe and to have faith, babe. Become one with self 1 with others and 1 with this universe. You're a good person be the best you can
But if you listen to Everybody.
That talks to you , there' Is always a message We are all energy, we are all.
Frequency , and if you were in tune with With yourself And others You will receive a message. You will also give that person a message Whether you know it or not
There are so many different levels to life It does not matter what we think. We know there's another level and then another level Because.
With each level , we get better and better and better and better I've been who we're supposed to be
In a round about way , your question is Is a lesson.
When people read it And if they think about it , they will understand what you are trying To say And if people don't think It will come up again somewhere And it will keep coming up until they understand and learn00 Reply
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- 702 opinions shared on Dating topic.
9 moThese mythical stereotypes of "soulmates" and "love at first sight" are damaging to real people who have to make real decisions where the choices are never perfect.
IMHO, you make a soulmate, you don't discover a soulmate like a gold nugget laying at the bottom of a crystal clear stream. That take years of time and effort and sacrifice.
Stop chasing perfection. It doesn't exist and it's not healthy to the individual or society to be chasing something you can never achieve. Live in the real world. Don't pass up VERY GOOD chasing perfection which might be around the next corner. It never is.
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9 moYes we just have to pay attention and learn to choose wisely. Your husband or boyfriend can turn out to be your worst enemy or the lost hated person you will ever hate.
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- 961 opinions shared on Dating topic. 9 mo
Love someone so much it hurts at times? Yes.
02 Reply- 9 mo
Hurt shows how much they matter. It's why death brings such pain. That is how much you loved something.
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- 3.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. 9 mo
Nope. The soulmate concept says that there is only one person for you. That's not true. There are many that one can have very good relationship with.
10 Reply - 9 mo
I'm sure there can be "a few" however "sometimes it can seem" like in terms of a long term partner + one or some women, may be better suited. Same goes for women with guys - sure there's many potential partners, male, long term short term, for them ladies however it depends on those factors. And what makes a stable, proper long term soul mate can differ surely 🙃😄 as comparing it to a suitable short term soul mate "we just wanted each other for an agreeable short term relationship" versus "we knew we had compatibility for the long haul" āļø
20 Reply - 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. 9 mo
Let's say there is such a thing as soulmates: only one person for each other person on the whole planet.
There's more than eight billion people on the planet. What are the chances you would ever find your soulmate?
32 Reply- 9 mo
I agree.
- 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. 9 mo
I don't believe in soulmates, or "the one" I believe out of the 1000s of people we would consider a perfect match, we pick one and make a choice to be with that person every day and put effort into a relationship that has potential.
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Good question, I like to believe I believe in soulmates! In the end, I think many people can make us happy and vice versa. Keep an open heart and mind. Try to love and accept as many people and their differences as life will allow. Be a good person and leave the rest to what may be. Never stop dreaming.
10 Reply - 778 opinions shared on Dating topic. 9 mo
Nah, I just think that you connect with someone so well, that you end up being really attracted to them to the point where you feel like growing to love them is effortless.. That could happen with multiple people throughout your life..
10 Reply 762 opinions shared on Dating topic. I think it's possible that there could be ONE key soulmate BUT everyone you make a connection with adds to the web of relationships in your life. Each relationship can bring a growth or a barrier to our personal development.
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I'm asexual and aromatic which means my sex drive is low and I don't desire romantic relationships. I don't see romantic relationships like traditional people see relationships. No I don't believe in soulmates and I don't believe that we have one person we're meant to be with. If that was the case divorced people wouldn't keep getting remarried.
- 9 mo
You have told me your status and I respect that although I hope there is space for you to remain open to something.
Divorced people are usually split because people change as they age. That's a fact of life. You grow up in different directions, find alternative paths, goals and desires. If I recall you weren't always like the way describe here and HAD been in romantic relationships before. That they didn't work out or ended well or badly is one of rich tapestries of the experiences of life. Marriage can be a journey (I've heard it called a [jail] sentence and not a word by skeptics and used that in a best man speech once for laughs.
Thing is ONE person with you on a journey through life CAN be rewarding and enjoyable as long as the connection and understanding is respectful and loving. Love is also not just a presence but a behaviour that you either want to do or not. You know the existence of love with animals and children and that's perhaps a way to see it. A learning and discover together with someone and being their to give and receive them in their ways. It's not an illusion though but a behaviour and experience with and for another.
- 9 mo
Low sex drive isn't something that should stop you wanting a relationship it's about more than the physical acts performed by and with you.
Defining yourself as aromantic doesn't mean you can't go out and spend some time with someone you are interested in getting to know whether for friendship or something more. That you're denying yourself that opportunity at life activities is a bit sad.
Is that what you WANT life to be like or would you make an effort to endure a dinner with someone you don't know just for the experience?
It sounds like your heart was shattered and you've lost something that was dear to you and I am sad for you about that. I hope it isn't still hurting. - 9 mo
I'm open to meeting and connecting with women for platonic relationships as women are more understanding of sexuality unlike men. No men and women can't be friends. I travel and spend time with my friend girls who are involved with men. My family knows that I don't date and never will
- 9 mo
LOL I am not conservative in the slightest. You need to do your research more.
Your list of men doesn't say anything about those types of men and is just a list. Are those the type of men you want to be around?
I live in a country that is the most feminised in the world. An unofficial list of priorities in society looks like this
1. Children
2. Women
3. LGB+
3. Pets
4. Wild Animals
5. Livestock animals
Notice anyone missing? - 9 mo
I'm in Scandinavia. It's far from heaven for many. Has some of the highest uses of depression in women, is very clique like and seldom do people demonstrate excitement and then it is frowned upon. Matriarchal it is not, equitable and self reliant it is. Sociable it is not. If you're born here the people you grew up with are likely the only people you'll know unless you move around. It's also tiresome as leadership is seen as a poor strategy to get things done. NO ONE TAKES ACCOUNTABILITY
I did know what asexual was but didn't take the bait you keep throwing at me. - 9 mo
American women WANT and aren't prepared to give anything for it. THAT's what is the problem. Society and feminist ideology has FORCED men to change but women have not, they're become entitled and selfish. They're the ones who experience mental turmoil and the resulting stress and anxiety far more easily, greatly and for longer, are more affected by it so require treatment and medication while men do not as much. MEN have adapted and served women to women throughout history and women have only become more entitled and not evolved their collective mentality. MEN have changed women have not.
Example, men accept women dressing how they please and do not judge them nearly as validly for this while a man dressing in women's clothes would find merely acceptance but be dismissed as unworthy of their interest Conventional women have had workplaces changed to FIT THEIR sensitivities and THEIR preferences even though men have been working in them for generations without issue. AGAIN women refuse to adapt to fit in, they expect to have things changed to fit them. Reciprocation is not something women are especially keen on.
The old adage a man will sacrifice his happiness for his family while a woman will sacrifice her family for her happiness is now the fashionable vogue it seems. Vows are temporary behaviours and not something to abide by in modern women's mindsets. - 9 mo
Feminist didn't destroy the West - men did by not showing their capable of being providers and treating women like human beings. Between that and the issues that affect women - men can enjoy being alone. They brought this suffering on themselves and are now complaining about not having access to women.
- 9 mo
MEN DON'T Provide? Are you off your head?
Who is working the farms?
Transports it to you?
Who sustains the water supply and sanitation flow to allow your C21 lifestyle?
Who digs up the fuels?
Who builds and maintains the transport infrastructure?
What about the buildings you rely on for shelter and warmth?
I won't go into uniformed services and all those dangers, risks, unpleasant and antisocial working conditions.
This is the problem with privilege and entitlement you're all exhibiting, You all got the access to working (women could always work) and enhanced access to education, promotion, management, all the easy street access to the POWER and control BUT NOT at the bottom line. Who do you think are kept at the bottom of social status? Women or men?
Homelessness? Men
Under the law who is worse punished? MEN
You've not seen the Feminist made movie called RED PILL by Cassie Jaye or read the book called Self Made Man (another feminist who went undercover as a man for a year to discover how SHIT men have it and when she came out said she'd stick to her female privileged life if there was a choice)
WOMEN refuse to take responsibility for SOCIETY functioning MEN are the ones stepping up keeping things going and keeping people safe BUT you are smart enough to know this I expect. - 9 mo
Absolutely BUT it was a reactionary vote that too few grown ups got out to vote and the Harris campaign was just more of the same and people are bored of all the bullshit being ideologically pushed on them
Men have evolved, try reading what I said, women have not changed apart from become more demanding like toddlers. It's perhaps why so many cultures didn't allow them the right to vote and make adult decisions.
Men are not the sole responsible adults in relationships either. WOMEN aren't being wives or feminine any more, they're in the COMPETITION market against men and trying to BE like men which is unattractive to men so men don't want another masculine type in a relationship now so they're avoiding women who cannot reciprocate basic human relationship skills, - 9 mo
Men aren't there to COURT women and if they were what is it women can provide them with to deserve courting?
Women are absolutely into the WORKING and career lifestyles. That involves competing for jobs WITH men, promotion AGAINST MEN around men and since there are lots of policies that women are entitled to access that aren't open to men (education, boardroom equality and all the other policies used to PUSH women into higher power positions NOT available to men) this makes it biased against men.
Reproductive rights are absolutely 100% under the control of women. In case of a pregnancy can a man choose abortion? NO can a woman? she can but may not get it in the place she lives, a few hours journey SHE can deny a man HIS CHILD. A man cannot have a child from a pregnancy that a woman doesn't want. he cannot keep the child if a woman has access to abortion.
A woman can force responsibility on a man through baby trapping and sabotaging contraceptives of LYING about using them and her intention to not aim to become pregnant. THAT is an 18 year sentence of financial burden WOMEN can impose on men without consent.
An article I read says that almost half of women would LIE about BC to their male partner who has told them they don't want children IN ORDER TO GET PREGNANT. That is immoral and evil. It's fraudulent but feminists won't acknowledge women have this RIGHT and that if they choose to give up a baby for adoption they're let off the hook financially. - 9 mo
Women only took on leadership rolls and stopped waiting on men because men couldn't demonstrate they were men by acting like men. Reproductive rights don't include abortions many pregnant women become high risk due to still births , complications, and miscarriages that require professional medical attention and medical abortions
- 9 mo
Picnics are good and thoughtful and you're showing your romantic side is still there which is nice
MEN can do all those things and used to but when there's no reciprocation of effort then men see they're being taken advantage of and are no longer prepared for that abuse. What do women provide men with when they're entitled, masculine, aggressive, often violent and abusive with language and psychological manipulation.
Now that women are able to afford to take men out, are encouraged to take initiative in work (but will not the home/for the partner), follow leadership at work (but not willing in the home/for partner) and seem to be more interested in what they GET From men and not about the men themselves - 9 mo
I agree hook up culture is a blight on society. It's the same dudes going around treating girls as conquests (the 10%) and all the girls are seeking that validation as they're missing something in their lives that the culture isn't providing. It creates women with a bitter sense of men's intentions and the other 90% of men get tagged with that BS nature when they've never been into that culture and end up having to console and work harder to bring these damaged women into a positive mindset about relationships.
I know women appreciate it but you've not said anything about what makes women worth it or deserve it. I've never been involved in it and don't believe in it either. Organic meetings and everyday encounters are where I've found romance all my life but I am kinda easy to impress and not at all superficial.
Traditional men is what modern women are after and I think that's where you're at but can't be sure while modern women have forgotten how to be wife material or feminine and able to turn a house into a home for a husband (and her) - 9 mo
Women's presence is enough- her time and effort in even gracing a man with her presence is a gift. The issue is men don't see women as value. We bring life to this planet and without women the world will cease to exist. If men want feminine women they have to respect , appreciate women , and provide
- 9 mo
There's that entitlement and princess notion that just the presence of a woman should be enough to lure in a man. That is some toxic arrogance there.
I've explained why women are not longer desired by men already because they've developed this narcissistic personality trait that is ugly, demanding, immature and self absorbed. They think that hair and nails are the responsibility of MEN to provide for them but ignore men when they tell them they prefer natural looks instead of appearing like a circus clown.
I've also explained that it IS men providing ALL of the services you're ignoring and take for granted which you show with a lot of the way you refer to men here.
You don't have the first clue about what men want do you? You WANT them to be satisfied with JUST your presence. Like some kind of queen. Get a grip lady that BS is out there on the entitlement scale. Her time and effort at what? sitting there? Shit few women can cook these days and even fewer can repair clothing. They just want to spend and sit back to watch daytime TV and be pampered like pets.
GTF
You think a man only wants a hole to put it in which says lots about how ignorant you are about a mans needs let alone his desires.
FEMINISM has ruined men's minds and made women intolerable and selfish EVERYTHING has been bent to accommodate women's preferences, the world has bent over backwards to provide for you all and STILL YOU AREN'T satisfied. THAT is why men aren't bothering to put up with all your shit.
You've had your chance to adapt and you've all failed. You want to be princesses and queens and keep telling each other that rather than the truth and when men tell you it you go off complaining "redpill", incel, misogyny, patriarchy, sexism etc. and it's fucking tiring.
- 9 mo
Men got dumped on because they didn't get anything out of the feminist/capitalist workforce infusion. THEY got to take on MORE work as well as have their roles superfluous as wages stayed put, job security and benefits plummeted and a softer more compliant easier to manipulate workforce came in to make them feel empowered. Yes ladies welcome to the rat race, join in, it keeps you away from your home and family treats you like shit, abuses your time, expects you to die for the shareholders and make sure the profits increase, meanwhile don't worry about these men who've been made to do this forever without any liberation to change their life options NAH they're gonna adapt to YOUR requirements and make your life easier as they will now take on the household jobs AS WELL without compensation - 9 mo
Men aren't allowed to lead, women won't follow because they feel entitled to be the ones making decisions and need to be constantly validated and that drama isn't worth the effort nowadays
Men DO respect women even though women still carry on like infants and are entitled and self centred
Pay bills for what? THINGS that men provide
Women want the world and when they get it they're still not happy. Give her an inch and she'll take the mile and want more. They do not develop themselves and grow up. - 9 mo
Everyone is happier without children on the whole. That extra burden of responsibility is an unnecessary challenge that feminism has beaten out of women more than men. Removing the self from the trait of nurturing to that of competition and accumulation has changed women.
Men are still the same as ever and women have moved into the sphere of men thinking they're liberation is at hand only to discover they've been had. They've been manipulated to serve the ruling classes AS MEN have always been expected to do only men are more experienced and militant about it so could make their own lives (and families) better but women dived in blindfolded and sucked in all the propaganda behind the movements. Now you're all isolated from the natural state of nurturing home makers and you're n ubhappy, regretful and blaming it on others (men) who've been in that same boat of exploitation FOREVER.
Welcome to the Good Ship Sieve, keep bailing else we'll sink. - 9 mo
Women aren't looking to take care of men in old age after they ran the streets and lived how they wanted too.. bringing women unnecessary stress and most men come with age problems. Met a guy, knew a guy in his 20s and 30s ran the streets and lived recklessly ruining woman and now has ED and wants to settle down in his 50s. I'm young vibrant and had my time with men 20 years ago as I got married and had my children. Not signing up for that again nor interested in living with a man.
- 9 mo
I'm not blaming men - I am done with you men after realizing the patriarchal system doesn't benefit women at all even married. Who wants to be stuck in a marriage with a man when these no fault divorces are banned. Yes I'm gonna live my single life - been there and done that with marriage and having children
- 9 mo
Men are opting out because women bring no value to their lives that a prostitute can't do better and cheaper.
The population needs to be maintained else who will be the ones bringing the power to homes, building homes, providing water, sanitation etc. WOMEN won't despoil themselves to do that. Maybe segregation should be introduced as you're describing. That way women can do all the things men do for each other and men can do what they do now for themselves and see which one succeeds. (it's been done and it's men who get things running and survive). - 9 mo
Conservatives are trying to reclaim femininity as THEIR trait as TRAD women are perceived as feminine and behaving to allow men to lead where they are the ones running homes for families and not trying to tap into taking power positions. They're being like the men in the background of society controlling things from the sidelines without being in the spotlight. Diminishing the role of home maker was a capitalist move to stop women from being their own homes power broker. Men would BRING their wages home and hand it over to their wife to run the household. That's no longer the case as women gave that idea up for the capitalists to own their time and labour.
- 9 mo
You're listening to the RW men who are the loud mouth asshats who have nothing to give but think they're something special. Blue collar and service professionals are the types who gaf about EVERYONE but they're the ones who are the creeps, aren't earning enough, too short, bald, poor, lacking ambition etc. for women to even look at them
- 9 mo
They may care about YOU and want to take you out and be closer though. You're not giving that option a chance.
As for the MAGATs. I have been blocked by a load of them since starting here because they don't like the attitude I gave them but they're not all men. A LOAD of young and middle women too (according to profiles at least).
Conservatives want to bother EVERYONE that's in their DNA not just women, EVERY FUKIN ONE
1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. I donāt believe in destiny
I donāt think weāre āguaranteedā to have one perfectly matched soul mate
But I do think we could make our own luck and find someone where weāll be just what we needed for each other00 Reply- 5.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. m 9 mo
yeah... and it is about more than just romance
10 Reply - 2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. 9 mo
Thatās a tough one. I think soulmates exist but you can have more than one soulmate.
10 Reply 1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. 100%, I have experienced a relationship with someone who is at minimum a soulmate and some of the things I experienced are stuff we both thought was supposed to be fiction.
00 Reply- 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. 9 mo
Certainly heard of soulmates. Haven't experienced one though.
10 Reply - 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. 9 mo
Nah I don't think there is that perfect person that would fit me..
11 Reply- 9 mo
You never know š¶š„²š
- 9 mo
The only mate your soul craves is God. Not tarot cards, astrology, horoscopes, numerology, the universe, crystals, or evil eyes
00 Reply - 9 mo
Many people say that they met soul mate but I havenāt seen them being together. I guess money is the big factors.
00 Reply - 9 mo
No, I do not.
00 Reply 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. I dont have a girlfriend. But my friends are my soulmates.
00 Reply- 2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. 9 mo
I wish I do 🫤
18 Reply- 9 mo
Most of the good bbws are taken. My ex-girlfriend had all the traits and qualities I was looking for, but she was too busy cheating on me
- 9 mo
I'm totally find being single for life. I don't meet the dating requirements and the criteria. Never will
- 9 mo
True, especially from what I told you
- 414 opinions shared on Dating topic. 9 mo
Canāt yes or no
01 Reply 316 opinions shared on Dating topic. I think more than one comes into our life.
111 ReplyYes but she is not with me now
00 Replyyes I do believe
00 Reply- 9 mo
many for sure
00 Reply - 682 opinions shared on Dating topic. 9 mo
Yes.
10 Reply - 9 mo
Of course.
00 Reply - 9 mo
More then I do love
00 Reply Yesss
00 Reply- 591 opinions shared on Dating topic. 9 mo
Nope.
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