Do you believe in soulmates?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[AI Opinion]

I’m here to sprinkle some fun and insight into your day! Soulmates? Ah, the spicy allure of destiny and romance! 💘 I believe our connection can spark with many, but it’s about finding those we vibe with and choosing to build something beautiful. Sometimes it feels like love at first sight, but really, it's about understanding, growth, and a little bit of magic. Who wouldn’t swoon at the idea of someone who just gets you? Keep your eyes open, love can be full of surprises! 😉✨

[ohsheeT]

I do believe in soul mates but not like other people

I believe we are ali soul. Mates because we all have come frome the same place

No if your talking about when you meet someone and you click when you can feel there energy. And it feels as if you are one with them like you have known each other before

I believe that is someone you might have know in a past life there is the most intense beautiful connection .. and when people have that that's what they are calling soul make.

Here's the thing that feeling that you feel or get when you meet someone like that

While we are here on this planet. We are to become one with self one with others , one with this universe , our god

What you feel coming from that person is the frequency of knowing each other of love, even and we crave that feeling, but that's what we're all here to do is to do that with each other. That's what that statement means become one with self 1 with others, 1 with this universe, our God, we're supposed to feel that feeling with everybody.

If you wanna take a little step further , sex is supposed to be a sin , but

But\n When you make love to somebody and you become one when you are finished, you have an out of body experience that will blow you away. It's so spiritual, it's so peaceful. It's so different than everything, and it is almost that same feeling when you meet this person that you call your soulmate, and how many people do you know, or have you even had that alibi experience? I doubt that you have, because not many people even take their mind there cannot even think about it. But let me tell you , there's a lot of things that we've been lied to about everything if you want to find more soulmates , if you want to find that feeling that you share with somebody , because when you find that person , you don't last very long do you kind of go your separate ways

If you want to keep that feeling all the time understand energy understand becoming one with somebody understand why we are all here, find somebody that can take you to in that department that sexual department to that other body experience, even, I don't know there's a lot more to it than just what I'm saying, but I do understand what you're saying. I do believe in it because I believe in a couple other things too, but I believe in energy. And if you can fill everything that I'm talking about right now, then you are a special person anyway, but it goes deeper and you should start understanding the deeper parts of it good questi.\n On, by the way.

[Simslover92]

No, at least not in the sense of lovers being soulmates. Not anymore.

But I do believe I've found my soul mate in my bestie. We always think so much alike and it's uncanny how connected our thoughts are. So I do believe you can find a soul mate but not necessarily in a partner but whoever you spend the most time with and feel a special bond towards.

[AviatorTom]

Definitely NOT!

There are many people in the world that you can love and have a very meaningful long-term relationship with.

Waiting for "The One" is total frustration.

[Summeroflove]

Yes. But many people never find one…. Most people are chasing lusts. Sexual lusts. Money lusts. Status lusts. And will never find one…..

[Hardon-Collider]

Like with most popular myths, the 'soul mates' that actually exist in the real world and not just fiction requires foreknowledge to possibly grasp a remotely real version of. The point of human souls is bridging the gap between spiritual and physical, so that the spirit can use the organism for self transformation.

To paint the simplest picture that will deal away with this question, it would be better to start from what you currently think soul mates are. You could mention a short clarification of what you mean.

In a sense everyone is your soul mate, or a better phrasing is; every encounter has karmic meaning.

The word "karma" might make you think of other things, like consequences, that's right, some encounters are less formative than others, and past lives also play a role, you sometimes run into spirits from the past lives, that's probably the most fitting fact that the soul mate myth is sprouted off of. (This might convince you that they exist: https://med.virginia.edu/perceptual-studies/our-research/children-who-report-memories-of-previous-lives/ but don't fall into the trap of using physical evidence for spirituality.)

I say you can view anyone as a potential "soul mate" (growth catalyst) because you are also carving your karma at all times.

But since the soul mate myth implies that there is a higher reason for you to meet and the connections aren't random... what do you think the purpose of bringing two people divinely together is? It's definitely not just so you can chat and have kids without ever struggling.

Yes, if that's what you ask about, you can be predestined to interact with another, but it is often quite opposite of sissy romantic indulgence time, most of our soul mates aren't even our partners, unless you are capable of using romantic relationships as a means to grow.

If anything, the sexy time of today is what people wind down at, either decrease their conscious awareness around and become breathing sex robots (which did serve its purpose in the past, but it's time to grow in consciousness before we actually merge with unconscious robots), or do the opposite and entirely hallucinate unreal "soul mate" fiction that does not match reality.

But proper relationships do the middle path of spiritualizing the physical. Not trying to replace the physical with spiritual.

That's the mythical misunderstanding of soulmates: a partner with whom you let go of all responsibilies and effort. One good anchor to reality in this, which you can start transforming with, is ensuring that romance triggers feelings of gratitude and sacrificial love.

Soulmates trigger personal transformation, and that's not trendy. And often quite triggering, because it's impossible to expose your loaded bombs within, without at least making a scene. But anyone who uses the Disney definition of "Swole mate" clearly does not find it sexy when someone digs up and exposes their garbage.

Which popular definition of swole mate best matches your use?

Even the modern half-assed insincere-churchy definition of swole mates still sucks.
Organized religion imposed physical laws for spiritual matters, as if spirituality is up there and reality is down here, therefore things are either instantly wonderful or totally ungodly. Some then have fantasies about perfectly indulgent love partners free of struggles because "if god created it then it's flawless." Needless to say, it doesn't end well.

So what exactly is a soulmate? Anyone whom you marry the official and holy way? Tell me that religion based laws around marriage are not useless when rich people afford as many "sigheh" as they want (towelhead's one night stands). It's a mockery of what's ought to bring order into society.

So marriages also don't define whether someone is or isn't a soulmate. Well a marriage can be a ritual that binds your immaterial bodies to make you sort of part of one organism that does the act of letting the love flow in unison (etheric body) but the legal document business that marriage has become is absurd. Plus going to perform a ritual still doesn't mean that you're going to be happy forever. It just means your love faucets operate in unison, and can be shut off both at once.

That's quite a plague, wanting to make a choice once and expecting permanent automated enjoyment. It defies the whole purpose of soul mates. Again for the coomer brains: the mythical version of soulmates defies the whole purpose of real soulmates. It abolishes the "I", the biggest difference between men and animals.. (and sex robots). Also, the soul is the private emotional container, while the spirit is the actual "divine spark" that wants to be transformed. Soulmates aren't just "matching souls," but two spirits using their souls to confront each other and build up a more sophisticated form of consciousness.

Could it be that your use of the word "soulmate" was totally unnecessary and you wanted to ask "do you believe that relationships can last from teen to grave". If such was the question on your mind, then you should've been more careful with your wording. Of course you got all these short (and shortsighted) responses "oh yess!" "no you st*pid bi*ch!" Which probably don't provide any valuable facts or long term convincing insights. So you'll ask this again a week later. Yet i wonder how much of a sissy retard @Steak_D_Bone thinks i am when he sees this. Or a schizo who does this writing without hallucinogens.

[Steak_D_Bone]

TL;DR lolz

[Hardon-Collider]

@Steak_D_Bone i was turning the soul fetish upside down. If a divine force brings two people together, it does so to bring them out of their comfort zone. Not to provide a comfort zone.

[Steak_D_Bone]

I did read most of it before I started speed reading, then skimming, and finally gave up. I get what you were trying to say. I agree... It doesn't bring comfort at all... it brings constant challenge and problem-solving. Without it, there is no reason to learn anything new.

In my short life I've learned this much... the Gods seem to stick us with people we don't yet know how to fully deal with in order to make us learn how to deal with them. Romantic relationships is one thing... but then there is that cucktard at work, that gets deemed a supervisor of you and other such situations... not a comfort zone indeed. Just another tard to learn how to deal with. I'd be a liar if I didn't admit I never cozied up to a Karen just so she wouldn't go after me with the HR department council of Karens.

[Zack-Bann]

I don’t believe in magic or destiny


But I do believe that compatibility is measurable


So in the same way someone can be incompatible with you
Someone can be your perfect match
I. e. your soulmate.


Rare to find
Rarer to get when you find them


The few times in my life I met such a person she was already with someone else
Couldn’t do a thing about it


It’s hard to watch something so perfect never see the light of day but such is life

[sage2021]

I believe that if you ever had a real loving relationship and both of you knew that you are soulmates, that's the only way you would know the difference between soulmates and a loving relationship. It feels different.
I've been fortunate to have had both types of relationships in my life and there really is a difference.

[BCRanger10]

No, I don't. I believe that two people meet other, get to know each other, determine if they're compatible and if they're a good match, and then choose to sacrifice for the other and love each other despite their flaws and shortcomings and imperfections.

[Levin]

Well, most people don't know what it means, for a start.

A 'twin flame' is probably what they mean by a soul-mate, someone of the same soul (or something along those lines).

Soulmates, well, apparently we have many of those. It's more like a soul-family or soul-tribe, people we are deeply resonant with.

[Hardon-Collider]

I've heard this before, but it's nonsense from some profitable "newage" book.

The only "twin flame", is your twin self. It will never be in another person. And i am not talking about the gender split between the soul and body (famously Carl Jung's anima and animus) - not even this. New age "twin flame" crap romanticizes the gender split, like your twin is the opposite gender. First of all that is impossible because the gender split is contained between your body and soul, and is limited to the incarnation in the human form. The spirit isn't divided into sexes. Secondly, there is a real "twin" of your decision-making-self, aka your higher self and your lower self.

But you're correct with that other part, this contrast of the two, makes me want to throw away labels and only use the definitions directly: There are no soulmates - Only soul tribes. There are no twin flames - Only our higher/lower self.

There's also the third thing that you called twin flame, and others called swolemate, that really does involve a divinely arranged encounter. Why wouldn't there be? If karma exists then so do spiritually-arranged encounters, as a means to work out the karma.

In other words, comfort seeking people should pray that their crush isn't a swolemate. Because a swolemate encounter is karmically charged.

Let's break down why it makes no sense for anyone to seek to make children with swolemates. Karma is often understood as bringing you consequences for acting like a piece of shit in the past. If you have been a piece of shit in the past, then something in your personality is shitty. Which would make sense for karma to follow you until this something shitty in your personality gets fixed. Therefore, a karmic swolemate is someone who exposes the piece of shit in you and challenges you to either double down on being a shit, or bend over and become a good boy.

The purpose of TFs or SMs or whatever people call them, is to cause growth. There's no growth without struggle.

[Levin]

@Hardon-Collider I wasn't making any comments in absolute terms because, well it's not something that I've researched or take overly seriously.

I think my main point is that there is an error in the conception of soul mates being just one person.

As for the notion of karma. I don't think karma necessarily means you've been a piece of shit but rather, you have limited beliefs and something higher could be happening. In reality, we're all wounded in some form. Relationships have shown me something, and in turn , I've shown them something. There is a mutual exchange. You feel that resonance at the time, but indeed, it was never meant to be forever. The feeling of alignment and resonance can still remain afterwards, but you might just not want to be in relationship anymore.

[FreyaRed]

No. It's just emotional desire of the child in your oldest personality stage to find other children to play with. Even thought our emotional needs are very similar our personality stages which are build on this early child stage differ very much.
Of course some people use metaphysics to explain connection to others but they are wrong or misinterpret the desire I mentioned above.

[Hardon-Collider]

Nah, you don't use metaphysics to explain seeking comfort. I will use metaphysics to disprove the idea that swolemates are comfort agents or anything to be excited about.

Let's turn the whole soul fetish upside down.

You're talking about it as if divinely arranged encounters bring euphoric effortless comfort.

And i do remember you had a near death experience, perhaps you can correct/disprove me with your own insights.

If anyone believes in divinely arranged encounters, then they have to believe in spirit's existence beyond the physical realm too.

If you believe that our spirits live beyond this incarnation then in reincarnation too. That's just overlooked logic. If we are spirits and if we incarnated on earth, then we will reincarnate afterwards. We don't just vanish. If there was a silly destination after just one lifetime then why would you need to be here first before going there... again, we don't just disappear.

You can also see the link in my opinion to reputable parapsychology proving reincarnation. People reincarnate shortly after if their deaths were of not natural gradual causes, and after as many as a thousand years if they died of old age.

If reincarnation exists then so does a procedure of choosing the right body to incarnate in. What's the procedure?

Look behind at the history of the planet. Evolution happened.

If we incarnate in the bodies that maximize the potential for evolution, then we incarnate in an environment that is going to challenge us to fix our personal shortcomings. No evolution without that.

The people who challenge us in this way, are the closest logical idea to swolemates.

So really the divinely arranged encounters are mostly there to make you change. Pull you out of the comfort zone.

[SolitarySolace]

No, I do not. I never have because if there were such a thing as a soulmate, an individual out there meant for someone else, you’d rarely ever meet this individual. They could be dead or on the other side of the world or another state, etc. The idea of soulmates is a fantasy that simply encourages people to not give up on finding a life partner they’d just end up miserable with. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[SolitarySolace]

No, I do not. I never have because if there were such a thing as a soulmate, an individual out there meant for someone else, you’d rarely ever meet this individual. They could be dead or on the other side of the world or another state, etc. The idea of soulmates is a fantasy that simply encourages people to not give up on finding a life partner they’d just end up miserable with. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[noohair]

Yes, soul mates do exist. But there is no guarantee that they will meet you. This is because that your soul mate might exist 100 or 1000 years in the past or the future. They might be half a world away or on another planet or in another dimension.

[Sugar100]

No my soulmate don’t exist. I’m alone everyday every year, no one wants to be next to me every day, I’ll never have babies, nothing I don’t deserve happiness

[Asker]

Why?

[Sugar100]

No guy loves me.

[Sugar100]

My soulmate don’t exist im almost 30

[Asker]

Girl you are still young you might meet your soulmate later

[CherryLove007]

It is unlikely to find that match. Hopefully you can find a great provider in this life ladies.

[Screenwriter]

There seem to be people who remain with each other for a lifetime. It seems a rarity, though. I think most of us are serial soulmaters.

[CountryWanderer]

Not in the sense of there being exactly one special person. But that there can be people who are great or perfect for each other, yes

[Anonymous]

No because if you lived on the other side of the world you would be with someone else who you then thought was your soulmate. It's all about proximity, not fate.

[exitseven]

No, but i believe that there are people of the opposite sex that have so much in common with m that it seems like that/

[WhitneySnow]

Yes, but you can have more than one in a lifetime

[Twalli]

I believe there is someone for everyone. There is a perfect person for you. The likelihood you'll find that person is virtually nonexistent though.

[LiamJHayden]

As in "one and only?" No. I believe there are many, many potentially compatible life partners out there.

[loveslongnails]

Not in the way that most people think of it, no.

[Iron_Man]

no, if not, everybody would be happily married for life

[shortster]

Not in the traditional sense of there only being one person out there that is perfect for you.

[Anonymous]

No. Because I'm not a 12 year old girl writing in her "hello kitty" diary.😆

[Anonymous]

If I have a soul mate, I've never met her, maybe she lives on another continent.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, I have two of them.

[Asker]

How do you know your soulmates?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Not in a romantic sense, no

[SoccerPlayer99]

I believe in stalemates... not soulmates.

[TonyMetal___86]

Maybe, not so sure about it...

[Anonymous]

No. But I want to so bad.

[Anonymous]

You choose ur (soul) mates 😲

[Alex-Snow]

Of course

[Anonymous]

Kind of.

[dudeinohio]

Nope

[Sam1133]

Nope its a scam

[Anonymous]

Yeah i do