Do you believe in soulmates?

[Anonymous]

Do you believe in soul mates? I think I met mine but we are both taken
I wouldn't ever dream to splitting up a couple, I was just wondering if anything similar happened to anyone else, I always think of him! I never felt this way in my life. How do I get over this man he is all I think about but he is off limits...

[Anonymous]

I don't believe in soul mates in the sense that there is only one person out there for everyone. There are over 7 billion people on this planet, and if there was only one person for each of us, we'd all be single lol.

I do believe that we just naturally click with some people more than others, and finding someone who just instantly gets you is rare.

To answer your real question though, don't let yourself be led astray. In my opinion, part of the appeal is that he's off limits. We all have a tendency to want what we can't have. If you're otherwise happy in your relationship, don't lose sight of that. People can seem perfect when we only know a small bit about them. I'm guessing you and your partner know each other inside and out and have still chosen to be together. This other random guy seems perfect from a distance, but really, what's the likelihood that he is as perfect as he seems once you get to know him better?

I'm incredibly happy with my current boyfriend... happier than I've ever been in any relationship. Do I still occasionally notice attractive guys? Of course. It's human nature. But then I think about all the ways my boyfriend gets me, all the ways he makes me laugh, all the ways he accepts me exactly as I am, and there is no amount of physical attractiveness or fantasy-like person who can even come close to competing with that.

[clampfan101]

I thought I found mine so many years ago, but I can only hope I was wrong because she passed away just before anything romantic… I’m hoping I have one somewhere in the world now that I can meet soon…

[ChrisMaster69]

Yes very much believe in soul mates, and can really understand what you mean.

with you both being taken, then it’s more complicated as you both have partners.

[Anonymous]

There is no such thing as soulmates.
There is no such thing as a true love.

people are inherently flawed, and will always end up hurting one another.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Pm me...

[In_Trance]

yes I do