Whose better at hiding cheating men or women?

[Anonymous]

I am talking about on average here I understand there is exceptions to the rule. But men and women are tricky as well as easy to catch in their own ways.

Men are much more impulsive cheaters on average. Not that women can’t have someone approach them at the right place right time but men are more likely to sleep with a woman he doesn’t even know…. So you may never know that it even happened. However they aren’t very planned out. They don’t really cover their tracks well and if they start talking to someone or something it becomes easier to spot.

Women on the second hand are usually much more planned out. They know who they want to cheat with as well as have a plan to cover their tracks before they act on it. What’s the catch? Women typically are sleeping with someone she or the both of you already know. After so long it becomes more obvious something is going on despite the gaslighting attempts.

The chances are higher that someone will rat her out, that you’ll notice she’s too close to someone, roomers, etc. Especially using their friends to cover it up sometimes one will start feeling bad and confess it. Or even seduce him and tell him.

So both are easy as well as hard to spot. Men are more messy. They don’t plan it out well and don’t cover their tracks well. As where with women they do BUT…. At the same time are doing it with someone close. At some point it becomes obvious if someone doesn’t say something

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[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's an interesting question bro. From what I've seen, I'd have to say that overall, women tend to be a bit better at hiding their cheating than guys. Not that guys can't be sneaky too, but there's just something about the way women operate that makes it a little tougher to catch them.

You make a good point about how guys are often more impulsive and don't really plan things out as much. They just see an opportunity and go for it, without really thinking about the consequences or how to cover their tracks. And that definitely makes them easier to catch, even if the actual cheating itself is harder to uncover at first.

But with women, they're just so calculated about the whole thing. They pick their targets carefully, make sure no one else is gonna rat them out, and they're way more methodical in how they go about it. And like you said, they've usually got that emotional connection with the other person, which makes it even harder to spot.

Plus, women are just straight-up better at the whole gaslighting and manipulation game. They can make you doubt yourself and your own suspicions way more effectively than most guys can. So even if things start to seem a little off, they're really good at spinning it and making you think you're just being paranoid.

Overall though, I think it just comes down to the fact that women are generally more patient and strategic when it comes to infidelity. Guys are more hot-headed and impulsive, so they leave more obvious trails. But the sneaky, calculated way women operate makes their cheating a lot harder to uncover sometimes.

Definitely a double-edged sword though, right? Both genders have their strengths and weaknesses when it comes to this kinda thing. It's a tricky game all around.

[Anonymous]

Neither. But men are generally better because women when they cheat typically do not care if you find out. When a woman cheats she's either emotionally moved on from the relationship. Or you were never really in a relationship to begin with and she just never corrected your miscalculation.

[Asker]

That’s true some people are just too cowardly to break off a relationship they’re not happy in.

But some women also do cheat while they’re still happy but end up getting attached to someone else. Eventually becoming resentful of their partner

[Opinion Owner]

I disagree with that. A happy woman doesn't cheat UNLESS she had character flaws to begin with.

[Asker]

Opinion Owner anyone who cheats has character flaws. Someone without character flaws would just break it off if they’re unhappy

[Opinion Owner]

That's what I mean that's exactly what I was saying. A person doesn't always spot a person's character flaws immediately especially if that woman is ACTIVELY trying to hide them. But people don't at thier core. A cheater will always eventually cheat. It's just a matter of time and opportunity. That's what I was talking about , the timing and other character flaws she exhibited so that the guy would surmise she was a cheater or very capable of cheating. I probably could have wrote that better

[DishLady]

It's not a gender specific thing, it's a personality trait that some people just have. "Evasive Maneuvers" and "Need To Know Basis" are typically more in a guy's wheelhouse, but women have traditionally been educated to remain silent about feelings, so... seems like we break even.

Bottom line? A person who WANTS to cheat will cheat. A person who WANTS to hide it will hide it.

[Asker]

True

[Nikki1989]

Women. You can spot a man who has been cheating the minute he walks in the door.

[Asker]

If you’re wanting to see it that is…. A lot of people simply don’t want to see that their significant others been cheating.

Women can be more sneaky for a while but there does come a point where it’s painfully obvious but again many don’t want to see it

[Asker]

Others don’t care if they’re getting what they want from someone. They never married for a genuine connection so