Why does everybody keep telling me I'll find someone good when dating is super dead?

[Anonymous]

I'd rather be single than being in a toxic relationship

[DishLady]

Agreed!

It's not dead, just slim pickings and everyone's noses are glued to their apps. I walked into a diner once and saw a coworker on a date -- the girl RIGHT in front of him talking -- and he was scanning the dating app for the next encounter. RUDE. ENTITLED. Smh.

And girls are no better.

Just breathe and be patient. Go out to real places and meet real women. You'll find a better quality human that way.

[Asker]

Yes, dating is dead now, and I dont meet the requirements or the criteria for dating. I have over 25 red flags

[DishLady]

Oh my…

[Asker]

Yeah... I'm one of those 63% of people who are single but can't date anyone

[DishLady]

I'm fairly sure that can't be true! Maybe you've just had some bad experiences and it's making you feel down about your prospects. We've all gone through phases like that. But you're young! Come on...

[Asker]

Well..., I just met someone very recently. We have our differences and incompatibility, but we're showing interest in each other...

[DishLady]

Nice!!! One day at a time, bro. Perhaps she’s an old soul as well. 😉

[Asker]

We we're only releasing negative energy and angry out on our personal problems, then the shyness started