Why Is it every time I go on dating sites anymore The people seem so bland and uninteresting?

[smahala1991]

I shit you not, every time I try to talk to somebody on a dating site they really have hardly any interests, And just seem like bleh. It's like trying to talk to people I hope not and you try to ask tgem their interest in hobbies and they don't have any or very minimal. It's like nobody wants to be deep anymore.

[jennifer_bloom]

I would assume these people do not have hobbies cause they spend all their time talking, cooking, eating, and drinking or trying to stay in shape. I know there are a lot of Asians like this, which is why they perform so well in school. They don’t drink or party, but have no hobbies.

[ryanontario]

i never found dating sites very interesting , i find when i meet girls its hard to get anything out of them anymore , they like to drink and party with friends , a lot seem to be interested in tattoo's and dogs for some reason , be uncommon for any of them to have any legitimate hobbies or interests

[ryanontario]

i though about this some more , whats frustrating is most girls do have genuine interests when there younger but they drop out of them when there around 18 typically , around here is an endless amount of under 18 girls into sports and dance but after 18 almost none of them stick with it

i know this one girl who works as a server downtown and she used to be into dance and really good at it but she gave it up when she finished high school , now her top interests are partying and getting drunk each weekend. but when she was younger she had actual interests like dance and played sports like soccer. guess she though guys didn't care for the dance thing which isn't true as a lot do find it sexually appealing and it was something that made her different/better than an average girl but now she has like no real interests

[Guy13]

Meetup groups sorted on hobbies. PLENTY of Interesting at those meets 🙃

[zagor]

I used to like those but Covid kind of killed it for a while. Very slowly coming back.

[Guy13]

@zagor Yep COVID slowed 💩 down.

[Pinay_ako]

Because online dating isn’t real life. It’s all fun and games. The real test is in person.

[fonduegirl]

I totally get what you mean.

I was on tinder sometime around 2019. I wasn't really against sex, or men but lots of perverts there who can't hold a decent conversation and start with "m28" or "dis you in the pic? damn girl" and one even asked if my boobs were fake (they aren't even that big, i guess he wanted to flatter me?)

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm afraid the dating scene for everyone has went downhill
their either out for money, sex, or their separated or divorce

[Avicenna]

It's not natural interaction. People are afraid to make a mistake.

[slatyb]

Maybe you are using the wrong dating sites or picking the wrong people.

[Fuentes]

It's 2022 who actually talks anymore lol what a sad world 🌎

[IsoUser]

I honestly couldn't answer because I've never had the opportunity to talk with hookers Lmao

[NathanDavis]

maybe they're just not interested on you...