Why isn’t there any girls worth dating anymore?

[Anonymous]

I feel like dating sucks more than it ever has for men in US. All you meet are women who don’t want relationships, cheaters, and just not great women you can bring back to meet your mom. I’m seriously thinking of just going to an Asian country for vacation. And just finding a girl worth dating there. At least they’re still feminine, family oriented, kind hearted (still have yet to meet an Asian girl who was mean to me), and love their partners unconditionally. That’s why Asian women outscore any other race/ethnicity in dating statistics for so many years now. If you want tips on how to be better ladies, just look at them. Sorry for the rant, but I’m gonna book my vacation soon.

[Anonymous]

There's women worth dating still my man. They're just in very short supply is all. And the reason for that is many. 1. Dissolution of the family structure 2. Women being raised without father's or very poor male role models 3. Single parent households (just mother) who has men coming in and out of her life like a revolving door. 4. Mother hates men. As a result she teaches her daughter to hate men. 5. Because mother slept with one man after the next her daughter grows up thinking that is normal and repeats the same behaviour. 6. Not saying that equality is bad, but the rise of feminism has fed women the idea that they don't need men. Where women in the past were relegated to getting married. Women were protected in the sense that they married and many things in life were decided for them. Women as you see are not always the best decision makers as the are ruled too much by emotion. Now women can make as many choices and as a result as many mistakes as she likes, and she does. But since women aren't accustomed to owning the results of those choices she still blames men for the outcome.

This is going to get a whole lot worse before it gets better my friends. I figure give it 2 or 3 more generations and if society has collapsed it begin to right itself.

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah dude, I wouldn't be so quick to generalize whole groups like that. Yeah dating can suck sometimes, but there are good people of all backgrounds. Saying one "race" is better than others just isn't true - every person is an individual. Maybe try expanding your search instead of limiting it. Also reflect on yourself - are you going into it with assumptions that turn people off? An open and understanding attitude will serve you better. Not all Asian women are the same either - some folks anywhere just want different things. Best thing is to get to know each person for who they are. Don't lose hope, keep an open mind, work on yourself and your approach. You'll find someone great when the time is right, who sees you for you too.

[LazerBean]

Finding a quality person to date is only difficult for people who lack quality or who didn't have parents who taught them how to date.

[IslaTheWitch]

Maybe because many women were hurt enough to keep guys at arm's length?

[Avicenna]

The problem with that strategy is that you are most likely to meet the gold digger who's been put up to it by her family or the woman who's hiding the fact she already has kids. Or the former prostitute.

An Asian woman who has a good job has little reason to leave her country for an unfamiliar culture and a man who probably doesn't speak her language. You are more likely to get one in a difficult situation, which probably isn't what you're looking for.

[Curmudgeon]

I understand completely, but two caveats:

1. Beware of the "Dragon Ladies". Don't confuse initial politeness for a long term agreeable partner. The Asians have their bitchy women too.
2. Has the "passport" strategy been played out? See this question, and my answer to it:
What do you think of the passport apocalypse?

[BourbonAndBacon]

There's lots of women worth dating. But don't think that its easy to date Asian women. And not all Asian women are the same. Some are very loyal and there are plenty of cheaters. My fiance is Asian and some of the stories I hear are the same as here. Book a trip there and visit and then start dating. Don't date online before you go there. You'll get scammed and they are very different after you meet in person. It's always different irl. You have to like the culture because you need to adapt and you need to have money because you will need to support them in some capacity. The best ones are poor and live away from the cities. Plus plane tickets are expensive and you will need to make multiple trips.

[XingQi]

You just gotta look in the right places.

You can't date secular, irreligious, liberal woman in the west- they hold no values. I've ended up in a similar situation with you when I had dated my last ex. She simply had no morals and cheated on me for another degenerate.

[aceleon]

for me a non-religious girl is enough reason to not date her, at least the religious ones morals are clear but non-religious is like custom made.

[XingQi]

@aceleon Sadly. You just gotta find one with strong values in the end. Women these days have bodycounts higher than actual prostitutes 100 years ago.

[aceleon]

unfortunate truth, and they think it is something to be proud of or a liberation.

[Lonen]

I think it's because most of the women here in the US don't see guys for someone to stay with but "who can I get the most out of for me" kind of thing. Again I'm just making a guess, no quoting me on this

[PBandJ_Nerd]

There probably are women worth dating, it's just harder to find them.

[888theGreat]

American women are liberal, spoiled, have attitude , and think they are entitled. They want to be men and abort babies.

[Anonymous]

You attract who you deserve. Lift your game.

[KrakenAttackin]

Western women are badly damaged (as are men) by being raised by single mothers. Hoes raise hoes, and hoes raise weak men.

[Twalli]

All YOU meet are those types of women. I have met hardly any of them

[bededazzle]

stay positive and keep looking

[ThrillSeeker01]

There are plenty