A guy I’ve been seeing since December, not one proper date. Offered to drive to London to see a girl. Should I leave?

[Brunettexoxo]

He said “we aren’t dating just seeing each other and I wasn’t gonna go, i just wanted to see what she would say”

[Summeroflove]

It depends on what you mean by seeing each other if it’s purely sexual then you know what he’s after. If you’re unhappy or feel like you’re being used you should leave. As well as learn your lesson

[Brunettexoxo]

Well we didn’t have dates because he couldn’t afford one. London is 7 hours away so the fact he was even offering to drive there shows how desperate he is

[Summeroflove]

Well showing someone genuine interest isn’t being desperate. It is desperate if someone just wants sex.

[Brunettexoxo]

Well he clearly does just want sex from her as he has me and was sleeping with and “seeing me.” & said he was interested but his offer to the other girl contradicts that completely.

[Summeroflove]

Then that’s what he was doing. You’re not stupid maybe you just didn’t want to see it but that’s what it is.

[bowenw]

I think it depends on your relationship with him. If the two of you aren't serious about each other, it shouldn't matter who else either of you sees.

[Brunettexoxo]

I was serious about him and he reassured me it wasn’t just a hook up

[bowenw]

It seems like he was not being honest with you and isn't ready for anything serious.

[Brunettexoxo]

Exactly

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[DishLady]

He's playing games. Leave this jerk. Wtf does he mean "dating" vs "seeing each other"? Nah... That wouldn't fly with me.

[LiamS95]

He's lucky to have a beauty like you, if he wants to give that up to go visit some random girl he doesn't even seem to care about then dump his ass.

[Brunettexoxo]

London is a 7 hour drive as well… lol

[NathanDavis]

well... you're just "seeing"

[Brunettexoxo]

Since December? Isn’t that a red flag when he’s telling me he’s interested in me and how I’m not just a hook up

[NathanDavis]

you said you don't even properly dating, so... obviously, there's nothing much there in the first place

[jahaims]

He isn't serious about you

[Brunettexoxo]

He was at first :( London is 7 hours away too

[Bklynbadboy12]

I wouldn't do it

[Brunettexoxo]

Yeah. That’s a 7 hour drive? When he has me? Wtf

[Bklynbadboy12]

Just think you'd be all alone with him then what