Why is being called average the same as being called ugly or at least being treated the same way?

[Anonymous]

Guys class me average.
Women call me ugly.

[NicholasRedone]

@Dan_5001 I take it as a compliment personally - I don't have to feel the pressure of eyeballs on me 🙃 every, waking, day in public - 😚

[NicholasRedone]

See - it's the glass half full 🌕🌝 🍺🍻

[NicholasRedone]

@Dan_5001 google it - a study found for the British, women felt or American, felt inferior to a muscled man - and preferred Mr Average or less than Average, as a better partner lol 😂😆 I like that. I like that a lot

[DishLady]

It's not.

[Asker]

Then why would I be treated like ugly person?

[DishLady]

That's possibly an issue with the individual who is treating you that way. What some folks think is "plain" others think is "handsome" or "classic". We can't all look like runway models, you know?

[Asker]

It's not one woman it's multiple. I guess going by my photo you say the same.

[DishLady]

Is this profile pic you?

[Asker]

I'm afraid it is yes.

[DishLady]

Why? You're nice looking -- def more a classic look from perhaps my grandparent's time. Great eyes and bone structure. Just you look a little sad in the pic. I don't know why anyone would say you're ugly OR average. Perhaps you're fishing for compliments? 😂

[Asker]

I'm just used to being called unpleasant things from the opposite gender.

For some reason guys rate me apart from looks max & gym men that like ♀️think I'm 🤢.

[DishLady]

You're either living somewhere odd or just around people who are being stupid with you. I'll tell you just looking at your good hairline that half of them are probably just jealous. Don't listen to them.

[Asker]

Wdym by stupid& odd? I'm having to live within Essex.

[DishLady]

Aaaah. That's why. You're not the "pasty brit" standard. You have more the indo-mediterranean look. They ARE jealous, lol. I'm saying THEY are being stupid (like joking) or just odd people in general (which they are). Go befriend a more diversified group of people.

[Asker]

What's a pastry brit? Where can I could start to find such people?

[DishLady]

You don't know what "pasty" is? Ok...

I don't know, guy. I'm not over there to tell you. But get out of the house and go into town more. Join a club or association and meet different people. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.