My boyfriend wants to meet his ex. Is this a reasonable request?

[sultry_ayumi]

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My boyfriend wants me to meet his ex. Is this a reasonable request?

[Anonymous]

Whether or not it's a "reasonable" request depends entirely on the context of your relationship, the history between your boyfriend and his ex, and your own comfort level. Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss your concerns with your boyfriend, understand his reasons for wanting to meet, and establish clear boundaries. If the meeting feels disrespectful or threatens your sense of security, it's perfectly valid to express your discomfort and potentially say no. Ultimately, your feelings and the health of your current relationship should be prioritized.

[ohsheeT]

You can always giggle and say. Didn't you do that once before? Didn't you learn your lesson? It didn't work out the first time. What makes you think it's gonna work out the next time

So what is the big deal? Why does he have to go meet her

[ohsheeT]

And you have to give it to him for being honest about it and telling you about it

Most guys would just go do it without telling you

[Zack-Bann]

On the bright side he’s requesting to begin with instead of doing it and not telling


Doesn’t mean you should agree


Unless she’s dying

[bowenw]

That is unreasonable. Why did he say he wants you do meet her?

[hello4433]

Tell him to breakup with you before he goes to meet his ex

[IslaTheWitch]

if he wants, then why not?

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Not unless they have kids

[katiesmuff]

Doesn't he already know his ex?

[SweetJoyGirl]

Break up.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nope

[In_Trance]

Dump him