Should I ask my ex if he would like to meet up in his city?

[Anonymous]

I’m travelling solo to his city in around 2 months. I’m not sure if he’s there and he hasn’t replied to previous texts but I’d love to spend time with him there. Would it be desperate to ask?

[xColinx]

Not necessarily desperate but what would your intentions be?

[Asker]

Just to hang out abit:)

[xColinx]

Do you still communicate on a somewhat regular basis? Sounds like the relationship ended on friendly terms?

[Asker]

It is still friendly and we don’t hold anything against eachother , however at the end of it he started ignoring me and still didn’t reply to messages I sent before:(

[xColinx]

hmmm... well I don't think it's a *bad* idea. Maybe he'd be interested in hanging again, maybe not. Doesn't hurt to ask.

He might be a little confused tho, wondering if there will be sexual vibes at all or what. How long has it been since you saw each other in person?

[Asker]

I last saw him around 3 months ago:)

[xColinx]

Sounds like it wouldn't hurt to ask if he's interested in hanging out. But what if it led to something... more? Would you view that as a good thing?

[Anonymous]

Not really, but it doesn't sound like he is interested.