What's your turn off/ red flag?

[Anonymous]

This is for guys 40+. What's your biggest turn off/ red flags while dating younger women? And what do you consider wife material?

[Anonymous]

Biggest turnoff: when she's not genuine.

When you're young you try to be what you think everyone wants you to be. But as you get older you understand better who you are, what you like, what you dislike. And what you're looking for in a partner. And the last thing I want to do is waste a minute of my life with a woman who's trying to conceal who she is for whatever reason. Nobody's perfect!

"Wife material" is a little harder to explain since I've never been married. And I really don't know that I really need to say that part. Because that part is either in her or it isn't. It's not like she can learn it. But it basically runs along the lines of being a good person. Being a person willing to compromise. Being a person who's willing to sacrifice the "me" for the "we". And probably most importantly a woman who WANTS to be a wife. A lot of women say they want to marry, want to be a wife, but in reality ONLY on HER terms. Marriage takes sacrifices on both people's part. Being a husband means making sacrifices for her.

[Anonymous]

Passive/submissive is definitely a red flag.

[Asker]

How so?

[Opinion Owner]

I prefer dominant girls.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[Pterodon]

I’ve dated 25 years younger and I can tell you from personal experience it’s the lack of maturity and wisdom in the younger that’s a potential problem.

[MikeRJ]

She is into drugs or constantly on her phone.

[BarryLiverstone]

Still under 30 so I don’t qualify. Will watch for the answers.

[Staximus]

Hard drugs, deceptive behavior

[masterSir]

feminist, colored hair.