Are you supposed to give a girl butterflies the entire relationship?

[Anonymous]

Like she wanted to leave cause she didn’t feel butterflies anymore

[DishLady]

You guys are both in your 30s and she still wants parasitic creatures gnawing at her guts when she sees you? She's an idiot. "Butterflies" only exist when the other person makes you nervous, usually because you don't know them well enough yet. But as you get to know each other and grow together that feeling is replaced by comfort.

Some folks confuse the nervousness with a sense of excitement -- physically they often feel like the same thing... a "rush". So she's an attention-seeking adrenaline junkie who isn't emotionally mature enough to be in a real relationship.

It's not rocket science...

[777GgG]

Personally I don't think butterflies ever go away. But I think you get use to them.

I've know my guy for about 10 months and although I'm insanely comfortable around him he still makes me nervous. I used to draw a blank when he'd talk to me because I was smitten. Now I can string together a sentence and only stutter a little 😂

[NicholasRedone]

Lust at first sight 😈🫣 in a perfect world, those relationships would last until the end of time 😆 hell freezes over - the sun finally extinguished + etc etc etc

[NathanDavis]

give them flowers...

then some butterflies might show up...

[StarWarGirl]

If somebody is wanting butterflies forever for the lifetime they should look for owning a garden rather than having a relationship. Relationship is much more than those butterflies feelings. It cannot be forever the same. It comes and goes and further the relationship transform into the next level towards a matured bond rather than just those attraction or those ticklish feelings.

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't think giving butterflies is something you can give...

and very often, when the infatuation phase ended, and stronger feelings didn't develop... there are no more butterflies, and you can do nothing about it...

[NathanDavis]

as I said... they could give flowers, and...

[IslaTheWitch]

@NathanDavis lmao

I would prefer the internal butterflies :D

especially when he knows what I like and uses this knowledge skillfully :D

neverending butterflies :D

[NathanDavis]

well... he gotta start somewhere

not everyone is born fully skilled, in fact... nobody lol

[IslaTheWitch]

@NathanDavis I assume they were some time together...

it can be too late for learning in this relationship :D

[NathanDavis]

I say it's never too late to learn... lol

[IslaTheWitch]

@NathanDavis truthy truth :D

[HungTexan]

Seems kind of silly. Maybe you could get her to just accept getting daily orgasms instead?

[Anonymous]

Any woman that expects that is living in a fantasy world. You'd be best to avoid that woman entirely. Stick with a woman that has realistic expectations.

[jahaims]

No lol. That chick is brainwashed by Disney.

[beefcakebradybatson]

I'd rather give a girl my beef club !!!

[Godihateyou]

No. STDs.