Is my girlfriend trying to make me jealous?

[weirdguy20201]

My girlfriend of 6 months wears really cute clothes, also revealing whenever we go out, she has a really gorgeous body, but I dont say anything about it because she is way out of my league and I dont want to lose her.

The thing is whenever she talks to anyone, she is really touchy, also guys, which is my issue, and also doesn't seem to mind the guys checking her out, and her cleavage.

It really makes me jealous, but I dont want to tell her so directly, what do I even do atp?

[Blunky]

Why wouldn't you compliment her on her body? Is she actually your girlfriend or someone you just labeled as that? Out of your league yet she's your girlfriend?

Maybe she's seeking the attention of others because you're not giving it to her? Or did you decide someone who flirts with everybody was a good pick because of her looks?

If you're not going to communicate with her about the things that bother you, then why would she stop? Don't do passive aggressive crap, there's enough of that in the world already. Treat her like a human being and communicate.

[Truthatanycost]

She is not your girlfriend and is certainly not girlfriend material. The problem is that you are trying to mold your behavior to match with a lie... that will never work.

At your age, I wish I knew better. I would never be wasting my precious time on this at all!

Seek first the Kingdom

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Maybe she's just naturally flirty and doesn't realize she's doing it

[SteveSmith1985]

The big question: was she always like this (when you got together and before)?

[Ariesman81]

You tell her. How she responds will tell you everything you need to know. A woman who cares will adjust her behavior to please you.

It is proper communication and boundaries. And if she has a problem with it, then she's not the one.

Pedestalizing her and letting her mistreat you will only show her that you have no self respect and she will leave you.

[Anonymous]

You're trying to hold onto a figment of your imagination. She isn't your girlfriend because she doesn't respect you or care about your feelings. If she dumped you, she'd be doing you a favor.

Your biggest mistake is having this scarcity mentality that men nowadays have, omg how do I hold onto her because I'll never get another one, it's you cucking yourself by allowing another to disrespect you in exchange for not being alone.

[Anonymous]

You will lose her if you become controlling or jealous when other men talk to her. Let her be who she is, and she will stay with you.