Do you think ill get shamed or bashed for never dating in the future?

[chocolatetwopointo]

my mom is alr obsessing over my love life and i feel like ill dissappoint her when i dont?

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a man js said every woman fantasizes about being raped, so u cannot ask me why i dont date.

[Summeroflove]

People judge no matter what. Even if you’re dating people judge you over who you’re dating. Date someone with money you’re a gold digger date someone making less then you…. Oh you could do better.

[conanbdetective]

Don't worry about dating for now. You're in your teens so just enjoy it and get to know the people around you. That'll serve you better in the long run.

[Flower7]

Yes you will, especially for not having children. There’s nothing wrong with any of that though.

[FreyaRed]

You don't need and you shouldn't tell her everything you think.

[hello4433]

It's your life so doesn't matter what others think, especially when it comes to your life

[hello4433]

Your love life.**

[hello4433]

I think only sick people think all women want to be raped

[chocolatetwopointo]

obviously

[Agape93]

Probably. Women can't win in this shit, so just do what makes you happy

[Rohaan2020]

People judge others whatsoever… so do what tou want ro do regardless if what people think or say about it

[David318578]

You are 16, stop stressing about it. Worry about dating when you are older.

[chocolatetwopointo]

im talking ab forever tho

[David318578]

But your not, you think your talking forever, but your world view at 16 is completely different then what they will be in 5 years.

[chocolatetwopointo]

but i am. there's no man up to my standards.

[David318578]

Not yet, but your not ready to date. That changes

[chocolatetwopointo]

still, nobodys up to my standards

[Staximus]

Not all guys are bad people, that's an idiotic assumption

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay? did i ask?

[Staximus]

No you didn't, but your response below to a guy who asked why was "because men are shit" and that is an idiotic assumption. There are plenty of good guys out there. One day there will be one right in front of you, but you won't even realize it because your head will be too far up your own ass to see him

[chocolatetwopointo]

none of them up to my standards, trust. thank god.

[Staximus]

You don't know anything about men, you are still playing with boys

[chocolatetwopointo]

i do tho, most r pedos and will leave me for a younger bitch the soon i start to age.

[Staximus]

No, where do you come up with this stuff? You're living to much inside your own head and spend too much time on the Internet

[chocolatetwopointo]

oh come on. do u live under a rock?

[chocolatetwopointo]

do wtv u want but i won't be dating a man whos js gonna make my life 10x worse.

[Staximus]

That's why you learn how to pick a good guy instead of a shit one. If you have no social skills and no life experience then you're not going to be able to differentiate bad people from good whether they are men, women, friends, romantic interests, lovers, whatever

[chocolatetwopointo]

im not wasting years of my life js to find a good guy. exactly, i hope i never will.

[Staximus]

You need to learn some people skills

[chocolatetwopointo]

many men can hide the fact that they’re evil

[Staximus]

So can anybody. If you don't know how to tell good people from bad and don't want to bother learning how, then you can be a victim of your so-called friends just as much as any man.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay so how can i tell if a man is a psychopath?💀

[Staximus]

I'm not a psychologist but the first thing usually is they have no regard for people's lives, living things, or feelings. They let nothing stand in their way when they want something. They are great manipulators and very charming and deceptive. They take unreasonable risks and they don't care about rules or consequences. They have no empathy, no remorse, and no guilt. They cannot relate to your feelings and have a lack of emotional connection. They are impulsive. They are very confident to the point of arrogance and act self-important. They always believe what think they is right and you can never talk them out of doing something they are set on accomplishing.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah well i won't notice that so ill skip out

[Staximus]

Like I said, you need some people skills. Not just men are psychopaths you know. You need to know if your friends, co-workers, friends of family members, and friends of friends are a nut case or not, too

[chocolatetwopointo]

ill be fine

[Staximus]

I don't know, turkey 2.0

[chocolatetwopointo]

kk bye

[Staximus]

Okay bye

[wkhan_87]

Why you don't want? You shouldn't make her disappointed though.

[chocolatetwopointo]

bc men r shit. i dont want to but im not gna ruin my life js to make another one happy.

[wkhan_87]

Okay but whatever you like but you are an interesting person.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay

[CrisboOx]

You're too young and irresponsible to date.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no shit

[chocolatetwopointo]

but im talking about forever

[CrisboOx]

You can't know for sure if you'll never be involved in a relationship from now on, and it’s highly likely that you will.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i can tho, i will never be in a relationship, nobody is up to my standards.

[CrisboOx]

It's too early to tell. It's very common for girls you age to make such statements.

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope, nobody is up to my standards.

[CrisboOx]

If you say so.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yuep

[Anonymous]

You're a child, stop worrying about it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah and ur an adult. maybe u dont have parents, but i do.