Are you cursed when it comes to dating?

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Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Put it this way-

Remember those old chain letters people used to send in the mail saying, "Send this off to x amount of people or you'll have bad luck or never fall in love?"

Guess who ignored those letters growing up? 🤣
I don't know about cursed, but I have enough horror stories and trauma from the past to write a book, have taken an indefinite hiatus from dating, and probably need a therapist so... yeah.

Maybe a little cursed.

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

Nope…even GAG broke the curse for me…since I met my second husband from here.

when I was in the middle of my divorce 10 years ago…my friend took me to some fortune teller. The fortune teller told me I am not marriage material…my friend siad since he didn't charge me, he must be right.
well I’m married again…so we’ll see.
but I never had problem meeting men/dating…when I was single.

Oigit · Accepted Answer

I'm a social outcast, emotionally defensive, disarmingly smart and weird. That was even true of me growing up. So dating has never been easy. Because when you are naturally not "normal" interacting with people in general can be rough. Because social and emotional relationships only work out when a person is on your same wavelength or close to it. It's not that big of an issue though. Because I'm well adapted to being alone and prefer it.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

I would not say so, never been an issue or an struggle...

but I don't really date much... in the past 16 years, most of that time I have been in a relationship with women, so I would not be dating around at all, there was no need to, lol

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I don't believe I am blocked from getting a very good guy or having kids - since I can get a surrogate if I am late when I wed, the only problem I might have in dating is a late relationship and no wedded bliss in my 20s or early to mid 30s.

Vikkrram · Answer

See tbh looks are considered to be a major role in selecting a partner first then their ettiquetes , behaviour.
So I got always a big rejection in my first criteria of dating.
Haha so a bit cursed and plus i am shy and introvert so it makes a bit weird for me

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

I want to believe in curses, but i don’t; at least not yet. Have i made a record-breaking series of piss poor choices of women and piss poor decisions when i stumbled upon good ones? Hell yes! Ell oh ell! Are my expectations too high? Possibly. But cursed? Probably not. My experience suggests the juice just ain’t worth the squeeze.

FlyingDutchman670 · Answer

I always feel like this, and not only when it comes to dating/romantic relationships... I feel like I can't even make new friends, because they end up ignoring, ghosting me or just simply, I'm the only one initiating conversations. And it's tiring, especially mentally. If I'm not the one who sends the first message, no one wants to talk to me?

GreenLanternI0I · Answer

No, I'm not cursed. It all comes down to simple physical attraction. If you are a man and you are a top 14% percenter, not only you wouldn't be asking this question, but you would be asking a question on how can I Stop girls from replying and trying to get laid with me. Girls/Women are trying to get the best physic they can because of their biology and a hardcore push from Hollywood, music industry and everything in between.

LovingLoverReturned · Answer

Haha, this question doesn't even gave a type of response that warrants dislikes...209% personal question. wtf is wrong with those idiots following you?

Anonymous · Answer

Haha I guess so. I'm always stuck in the flirting phase right before actual dating.

One of the guys I was in a "situationship" with went to the military, in another case I moved to a different city, and the last guy that I was interested in went abroad for work.

So yeah, People around me date all the time while I'm there, finding chemistry only for it to fade before I get to explore it.

Mansearching · Answer

Sometimes it seems that way. I'm in a good relationship rt now. She and I have been on/off for 11 years. We seem to be in a good spot. But when we were off, it was hell trying to find one. It was just one nighters and then that was that. I wanted to go forward with them but no dice. I guess they were looking for a piece of ass only or get back at their old man (found out later).

But I'm in a good relationship with my girlfriend. Hopefully it stays that way.

Adaeva · Answer

I don't feel cursed. I get asked a lot so I change boyfriend about every other month. That may change when I am a bit older. However, for now, none of the guys I date can drive so my dating options are very limited.

AspiringArtist · Answer

26. Only been on 2 dates in my life. Once at 14. Her mom made her older sister tag along. It was horrible. Once more at 22. We went to a terrace and set there talking for 6 hours with only two drinks each. I could’ve come up with something else to do but my stupid head didn’t think of it. She was right to friendzone me. I’d say she’s dodged a bullet.

AsaKyo · Answer

Yeah, cause' I'm either not someone's type like ever or when someone actually does have interest in me and I talk to them more, they always end up being an asshole

MoonSkies2 · Answer

Not anymore, I finally found the right person. Dating is hard nowadays, you won’t succeed if you quit tho. Sometimes, the universe just doesn't give you the cards that you want.

cth96190 · Answer

I must be cursed. Women rejected me, then threw themselves at mentally-defective scumbags for years. Not long after I turned 30 I gave up. MGTOW monk for 22 years.-

JDavid25 · Answer

Not necessarily.. I'm definitely not blessed, but I wouldn't say I'm cursed.. At the very least I have a fairly good looking appearance..

DizzyDesii · Answer

Nah but i love that film and would love to be a werewolf and eat up the competition

Twalli · Answer

I would say it's the opposite. I didn't get a girlfriend until I found my current one, and while that might seem like it was a curse, it was probably a blessing ensuring that I would only be with the one I was meant to be with.

msc545 · Answer

I am cursed to the point I will never do it again.

Audiofox · Answer

As a woman I am apparently not allowed to date on my own terms, so yes. (Cue the angry incels)

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

I go for the most toxic piles of shit so probably 😂😂

catiecatie · Answer

Seems like it. Fingers crossed that I can get my crush though!

melanieeeB · Answer

Nope🙏🏼 I guess it's all about how you see things and I thankfully was never a pessimistic person

AdithyaR · Answer

Oh I very much am cursed. Doomed to eternal solitude to with no way to break this wicked magic that haunts me.

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely. Not a question. i am Mercilessly cursed indeed. I must have made someone exceptionally angry to be cursed like that.

Beauty and height mean nothing. I had much more luck hiring courtesans for a few hours.

tonamimargaux · Answer

Hell yeah I’m cursed. They don’t last more than a month

zagor · Answer

No, more like an idiot about it. But I'm done with it. Not sure why I still hang on GaG.

carlito20000 · Answer

lets put it this way , most women iam dating - are beautiful but tend to have things like depression or an addiction - i dont know why this so

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t think I’m cursed  I think I’m the CEO of it

es20490446e · Answer

There are only two ways of being cursed. One is by doing nothing, the other is by doing always the same.

I feel my dating life has been bad in general, but at the same time I see myself doing better and better.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Ha! You wouldn't need to curse me. I'm incompetent enough on my own.

Wiredone · Answer

I'm married so I don't have to worry about dating anymore

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I’d like to think I could do better if I really tried but the truth is I just don’t go out often enough

Fuentes · Answer

I choose not too, I skip the part to the bedroom or the back seat of my truck

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No, I don't think so. I'm just very lazy when it comes to dating. 😕

SaoirseS · Answer

I’m married now, but I could write a book of bad date stories.

thegooglepixelfan · Answer

Bit cursed when it did come to dating. Had a few of the bad experiences with som guys. Also, it has to be cursed of having no girls as friends for being attractive.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Possibly. I don't have much problem getting dates, but I am awful at having long term relationships.

Labokachulaa · Answer

I feel like I am sometimes lol.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Yeah, it never happens!

annabananna · Answer

Nope! I don’t believe in curses

Sasha0426 · Answer

I honestly think so. Oh well 🤷‍♀️

saucyduck23 · Answer

Nope, only cursed when finding one.

Tina19 · Answer

No i am just a perv magnet lol

sheikalana · Answer

I believe I am.

Akam93 · Answer

Yes very much.

Anonymous · Answer

Yep. Especially because I am black.

Valso · Answer

Yes, I am.

Loser94 · Answer

Yes cursed to be alone and awkward around women

ZenJen444 · Answer

No..

LemiaOfThunder · Answer

Guess So

grega239 · Answer

Apparently

Matmazeldiana · Answer

Lanetli değilim

DevinAM · Answer

Perhaps

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